im having a miscarraige...

Ive been bleeding almost my whole pregnancy. At 7 Weeks they did an ultrasound that showed I had a subchorionic hemorrhage but the baby was perfect. Heartbeat perfect (150) and everything.Yesterday I went to the doctor because my bleeding had gotten worse and Im having really bad cramps. They did an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat and the baby was measuring 7 Weeks 4 days when im supposed to be 10 Weeks.. They told me im having a miscarraige... In 4 days my baby went from perfect to gone...... I dont know if I can ever get over this... I dont know how to deal with it... I cant stop crying... I dont want to go through this... I wish I could go back in time and fix it... I know there is nothing I could have done to stop it but I keep thinking of all the things I should have done different... I dont know what to do....

I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly what you're going through.

Oh no  
I''m so sorry!! *hugs*

*Big hugs*

It just smurfing sucks....

I'm sorry you're going through this  

I'm very sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. Its been four years since I lost my son at 18 weeks and its still hard at times. but it is true as time goes on it does get a bit easier. You never forget but it does cross your mind less frequent. Keep your head up mama.

I understand, sweetie. It gets better. I cried for weeks after losing my baby, but now it isn't nearly as hard and it has been 7ish months.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. But I can tell you, it does get better.
I had 2 in 4 months, the second was 4 days after DH deployed.
The one thing you have to do is not blame yourself. As much as you want to, you have to know that it is was not your fault.
I'm so sorry mama.

I'm so sorry.

I am sorry for your loss. I know how you feel...It will get better in time. Keep ya head up.

You'll get over it I promise, it doesn't feel like it now but you will. I've been through this twice. Just remember it's not your fault!!!!!!!!! That's the main thing that got me, I had 2 miscarriages in a row and I thought I was a let down to my husband. DONT THINK LIKE THAT. Trust me, it only hurts you more. My first m/c I was depressed for about 4 months (didn't get out of bed kinda thing) just crying it took me a year total to get over it, the first is always the worst   Im so sorry for your loss but the pain will get better. I swear. And your answer to "I dont know how to deal with it" is, you pretty much can't. You just have to be sad until your not   I know that's not the answer your looking for but it's 100% true.   Im terribly sorry. Mail me if you need anything.

so sorry for your loss  

I'm so sorry, mama. It's a horrible thing to go through, and I'd never wish it on anyone. Let yourself cry and let yourself grieve. The pain never goes away, but it does get easier to cope with. I hope you find peace soon. Hugs.  

Quoting KathrynPeep:" You'll get over it I promise, it doesn't feel like it now but you will. I've been through this twice. ... [snip!] ... not   I know that's not the answer your looking for but it's 100% true.   Im terribly sorry. Mail me if you need anything. "

I don't think anyone ever "gets over" a loss. I haven't "gotten over" any of mine. And for me, the first wasn't the worst, the second was.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" I don't think anyone ever "gets over" a loss. I haven't "gotten over" any of mine. And for me, the first wasn't the worst, the second was."

My fourth was. I agree though. I don't think you can "get over" that.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" I don't think anyone ever "gets over" a loss. I haven't "gotten over" any of mine. And for me, the first wasn't the worst, the second was."

Its been 2 years since my first m/c, and a year since my 2nd. Im over it. It hurts for a while but it heals. The first took me a while. The second i was expecting a m/c because it was twins. You do eventually get over it, just not when the sores are still fresh.