re: Should I Wait To Tell My Mom?

Quoting J+D=4:" she wasnt "disowned" though if she's still living in her house...."

i was disowned with my first pregnancy... she kicked me out... i didnt live with her during that time i lived with my bfs family

Quoting J+D=4:" she wasnt "disowned" though if she's still living in her house...."

oh. then wtf OP. lol i didnt read through the thread i just saw where it said she disowned her.
then i dont know what to tell you.. your just like anyone else that gets pregnant in their parents house against their parents will. sooner the better. spit it out

Quoting MWifey:" oh. then wtf OP. lol i didnt read through the thread i just saw where it said she disowned her. then ... [snip!] ... your just like anyone else that gets pregnant in their parents house against their parents will. sooner the better. spit it out"

LOL with the first pregnancy i wasnt living with her as soon as she found out she kicked me out and i lived with my bfs family i just moved back in like 2 months ago

Quoting ProundMommy2Be2:" i was disowned with my first pregnancy... she kicked me out... i didnt live with her during that time i lived with my bfs family"

But you forgave her enough to move back in, so why is it an issue now?

Quoting ProundMommy2Be2:" LOL with the first pregnancy i wasnt living with her as soon as she found out she kicked me out and i lived with my bfs family i just moved back in like 2 months ago"

id just tell her with a look on my face that said "no big deal" lol or maybe go to her all excited.. like YAAAY for me! lol

Quoting ProundMommy2Be2:" i was disowned with my first pregnancy... she kicked me out... i didnt live with her during that time i lived with my bfs family"

but you obviously made up. I was pregnant in highschool. my mom flipped out, as she had EVERY right to. we disagreed over the situation, and I moved out the next day. but the next day she also called and apologized. we made up; she's my mom and I'm her daughter. No parent is happy about their kid getting pregnant in school. but you're an adult now. as long as you are honest with her, and tell her about your plans to move out and support yourself, it will be better than hiding it.

Quoting tinana +2:" But you forgave her enough to move back in, so why is it an issue now?"

and i did forgive her.... but i dont want her to disown me again living with her or not im afraid shes gonna disown me and i dont want to go thru that again... shes one of the people that i want by my side thru anything or anything but its hard not to think shell do it again

Quoting ProundMommy2Be2:" Yes and if you knew my mom and everything she put me through you would understand more why im feeling the way i do..."

If you live with her then you need to tell her. She doesn't need to hold your hand for this. She was probably disappointed that her 16 year old daughter went out and got pregnant.
She doesn't HAVE to help you. And now that you are 18 she doesn't have to do ANYTHING for you.
If your going to choose to keep this baby then you need to figure things out for yourself. Your a mother that's about to have another baby. Time to grow up hunny.

Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" If you live with her then you need to tell her. She doesn't need to hold your hand for this. She was ... [snip!] ... baby then you need to figure things out for yourself. Your a mother that's about to have another baby. Time to grow up hunny."

i just cant read your posts in anybodys voice but your AVI's im so in love..

Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" If you live with her then you need to tell her. She doesn't need to hold your hand for this. She was ... [snip!] ... baby then you need to figure things out for yourself. Your a mother that's about to have another baby. Time to grow up hunny."

im not asking her for helo or for anything i just dont want her to disown me thats it.. i dont need her help at all.. i made it through the first one without her i can make it through this one without her

Quoting MWifey:" i just cant read your posts in anybodys voice but your AVI's im so in love.."

 

Quoting ProundMommy2Be2:" which is true but wouldnt you think shed be more understanding than disowning?"

It really depends. It would be a lot better for the parent to be understanding and helpful but it can be a big shock to find out that your 16 year old is going to have a baby. It can also be shamful to some.  
This can go either one of two ways.
She will find out and be upset but get over it because she's already had to deal with this once.
Or
She will freak out that you got pregnant again and not talk to you again.

Quoting MWifey:" i just cant read your posts in anybodys voice but your AVI's im so in love.."

Damn!   He is causing such a distraction  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:</b>" Damn!   He is causing such a distraction  "</blockquote>


He just keeps givin me those eyes and oh that smile. Gah

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:</b>" Damn!   He is causing such a distraction  "</blockquote> He just keeps givin me those eyes and oh that smile. Gah"

I keep finding others that I like of him but this one just... works   I can't change it for some reason