Quoting 3 little monsters:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Obvious:</b>" as a parent of a developmentally delayed ... [snip!] ... I can't agree with this statement enough. OP fairness shouldn't factor in when its a developmental concern like this."
It's not just about fairness, but that I think they should each be treated equally. She already does a lot of stuff that he doesn't get to do. I don't want him to be left out even more. I need to give her what she needs (which she's already getting), but I need to cater to him too, if that makes sense.
Also, no one really commented the other concern, that she can't go through a speech session on her own yet (which is only 30-45 minutes).