Quoting Squeekerz:" If a man and woman have a one night stand and the woman ends up pregnant and he makes it clear from day ... [snip!] ... with the pregnancy and keeps it, should a future family of his have less priority than the child he voiced he never wanted?"
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" Well regardless he still would need to pay child support but otherwise if he chooses to have a family ... [snip!] ... to have a family in the future that will be his priority, fair or not. I would feel bad for the child he didn't want though."
Quoting Wolfskrieger:" Yes I believe even though a man might not want to be the father his family should be able to see the ... [snip!] ... and wants to be there but he doesn't seem to care much, but anyway his mom sends my son presents and toys she's very great. "
Quoting wilde_mommy:" To me I think a man should be able to say if he wants the child or not but it needs to be done within ... [snip!] ... can decide she does not want the child and have an abortion I think a man should have the same right. I hope that makes sense"
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" She should resepct what he wants and say ok see ya. Dont ask for CS, get full custoday and be the mother she wanted to be"
Quoting Squeekerz:" Yes, it is sad for the child, that's sure. What happens if he paid CS at first but then lost his job, ... [snip!] ... the one night stand keeps hitting him hard for CS and pushing getting his license taken, or him arrested, etc... is that fair?"
Quoting ag iompar clainne (16w):" No, the family he wants should come first. IMO he should have legal channels open to him so he can refused to be forced into fatherhood."
Quoting Squeekerz:" Does it make him a deadbeat to not be able to pay CS at some point, yet still provide for his family ... [snip!] ... suddenly lost his job, which built up back CS and caused him to not be able to catch up even after he gets a minimum wage job?"