re: Surrogacy

i dont want to be the debby downer here but i have a honest question. im 100% just curious and am not trying to step on anyones toes here..


would they let you do it again where you hemorrhaged and the one baby was breech causing the doc to have to go up and help? i would think they would worry about you mostly cause the blood transfusion and hemorrhaging.

once again just curious. i think your an amazing woman for what you did with the twins!

Quoting Deborah B.:" i dont want to be the debby downer here but i have a honest question. im 100% just curious and am not ... [snip!] ... blood transfusion and hemorrhaging. once again just curious. i think your an amazing woman for what you did with the twins!"

her doctors new the baby was breech and wouldnt have agreeded to do a vaginal... that has nothing to do with anything..
she had the transfusion a day or 2 after the babies were born, it was like she bleed out on the table and had to have a transfusion....


they proabbly WOULD do it if she was okay with it.. lots of mothers have babies after getting a transfusion.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Deborah B.:</b>" i dont want to be the debby downer here but i have a honest question. im 100% just curious and am not ... [snip!] ... blood transfusion and hemorrhaging. once again just curious. i think your an amazing woman for what you did with the twins!"</blockquote>




No idea..she said to ask my doc about it at my 6 week appointment...

Quoting *Momlette*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Deborah B.:</b>" i dont want to be the debby downer here but ... [snip!] ... for what you did with the twins!"</blockquote> No idea..she said to ask my doc about it at my 6 week appointment..."

Unless you have a blood disorder, my guess would be that they consider it to be an isolated incident. My mom hemorrhaged when she had me, but the doctors never said anything about her being at risk for it again in her other pregnancies.

Quoting Chuck Bass:" Unless you have a blood disorder, my guess would be that they consider it to be an isolated incident. ... [snip!] ... when she had me, but the doctors never said anything about her being at risk for it again in her other pregnancies. "

I agree.. I have had unexplained bleeding wtih my oldest son, but with my youngest, I didnt. So I wouldnt think that it really matters.

I had my 6 week appointment today and she said she's not recommending I get pregnant again for another year. Soooo I guess I'll be waiting  

Quoting *Momlette*:" I had my 6 week appointment today and she said she's not recommending I get pregnant again for another year. Soooo I guess I'll be waiting  "

good! that way they wont snatch you up first since its not your first time! i wanna be pregnatn uggghh lol

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" good! that way they wont snatch you up first since its not your first time! i wanna be pregnatn uggghh lol"

LOL I hope you get picked soon   I'm going to tell Fran to repost my profile for being available some time in 2013

Do you ever get to see the babies?

Quoting ~Elliott's.Mommy~:" Do you ever get to see the babies?"

The parents send me a picture every couple weeks and they're inviting me out to visit in the spring.

Quoting *Momlette*:" The parents send me a picture every couple weeks and they're inviting me out to visit in the spring."

Oh, thats sweet.=]