Quoting Lacy S:" The military does NOT had family matters in their courts,they are used for mpj and such.if you know what ... [snip!] ... his post and he MIGHT be willing to help.i was military myex is military and my husband now is a first sgt in the marine corps"
when I was in this situation with my ex and I called his 1st Sargent in command they told me that they would first have to establish paternity then they would order him to pay child support and spousal support. He was in the marines. aslo my BIL is in the air force and they handle all of their court matters there. I have been told this information first hand. the military does not allow a man not to take care of his family. if I were you I would call his base directly. they will tell you exactly what steps to take.