re: Official single moms/dating thread!

So i am wonder like what is gross to do in bed to you.. or u think is gross but wasnt that bad.. and go

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" So i am wonder like what is gross to do in bed to you.. or u think is gross but wasnt that bad.. and go"

I'm open to anything really... except smurffing on each other. I'm not down with that. but.. otherwise... I'll try anything once

Quoting snglemama:" I'm open to anything really... except smurffing on each other. I'm not down with that. but.. otherwise... I'll try anything once"

lmfao yeah no i dont want a clevland steamer omfg gross.. no the one guy i hook u with he hooks up with another girl i know (dont worry i am safe lol) and she text me beng cocky and tells me he licked her ass im like the smurf that's nasty.. or so i thought lol

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" lmfao yeah no i dont want a clevland steamer omfg gross.. no the one guy i hook u with he hooks up with ... [snip!] ... i am safe lol) and she text me beng cocky and tells me he licked her ass im like the smurf that's nasty.. or so i thought lol"

um... no. doesn't do much for me... but I've had it done. for some reason.. they thought it was sexy.

but... I love anal play... so... yea. but, not a fan of oral at all.. tongue on clit, vag, ass, all feels same to me

Quoting snglemama:" um... no. doesn't do much for me... but I've had it done. for some reason.. they thought it was sexy. ... [snip!] ... was sexy. but... I love anal play... so... yea. but, not a fan of oral at all.. tongue on clit, vag, ass, all feels same to me"

i let them do the whole oral thing but it does nothing for me either idk why? .. heres another odd question if a guy has curve or bend in ther penis why does it hurt after and sometimes during?

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" i let them do the whole oral thing but it does nothing for me either idk why? .. heres another odd question if a guy has curve or bend in ther penis why does it hurt after and sometimes during?"

I guess cause it hits differently? idk... I haven't been with anyone with a significant curve lol

Quoting snglemama:" I guess cause it hits differently? idk... I haven't been with anyone with a significant curve lol"

SO here is another question (sorry bored) I am staying with my kids dad right now since we had no place to go and I told my friend that I was and we hadnt hooked up since before xmas and than he was real chatty, and sexty and than we hooked up and he was real nice about it all there was lots cuddling and he let me sleep there and like it was different..
when i was there he told me this other girl he see's is moving to another province so i was thinking 1 me living with my ex made him jealous or 2 because she is leaving

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" SO here is another question (sorry bored) I am staying with my kids dad right now since we had no place ... [snip!] ... he see's is moving to another province so i was thinking 1 me living with my ex made him jealous or 2 because she is leaving"

um, I don't understand what your question is. but.. if you're living with one man, hooking up with another.. might not be the best thing. and.. if the guy you're hooking up with is talking about another girl while you're there.. then it's probably just sex... the why doesn't really matter does it?

Quoting snglemama:" um, I don't understand what your question is. but.. if you're living with one man, hooking up with another.. ... [snip!] ... with is talking about another girl while you're there.. then it's probably just sex... the why doesn't really matter does it?"

Okay lol.. I am staying with my kids dad bu NOT together with him and neither of us want to be or have a relationship, and i know its just for sex.. I was just wondering why after months he randomly wanted to be talking again in that way conviently around time he knows im staying with the ex and the other girl is moving

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Okay lol.. I am staying with my kids dad bu NOT together with him and neither of us want to be or have ... [snip!] ... wanted to be talking again in that way conviently around time he knows im staying with the ex and the other girl is moving"

ooh, well if he was sleeping with her... probably exactly that.. because she is moving.. and he needs sex

Quoting snglemama:" ooh, well if he was sleeping with her... probably exactly that.. because she is moving.. and he needs sex"

I was thinking before i knew about her moving that men are like kids with toys once another guy has what u want u want it agin

Quoting snglemama:" lol! I'm so unsure and confused about what I'm doing with my guy. Having no expectations and not ... [snip!] ... not on the same page... ugh.. I dont' know. just stressful putting my heart out there for someone and not knowing where I stand"

In my HONEST opinion and experience, I think you need to dump both guys. I could go on about why, but you're going to do what makes you happy in the now. I've done that a million times. I'm not immune to it in the future. But if you really want long-term, what are you doing messing around with two guys who most likely won't give that to you? Flattery is great, but you don't need it. You already know you're awesome. If you want someone in the meantime, don't do it with someone who need more from than they are giving. That's how I ended up being a total human wreck on wheels. It NEVER turns out well. You are already on the path of self-destruction. You are with someone you already left once before who isn't willing to give you what you need, so in turn you try to distance yourself with someone who is unavailable whom you also do not really want.

Quoting snglemama:" I'm open to anything really... except smurffing on each other. I'm not down with that. but.. otherwise... I'll try anything once"

Ha ha. Me too.

Quoting Is that still my name?:" In my HONEST opinion and experience, I think you need to dump both guys. I could go on about why, but ... [snip!] ... you what you need, so in turn you try to distance yourself with someone who is unavailable whom you also do not really want."

I know... but when I'm with him.. all is good. He's what I want. EVERYTHING I want.... I just want it forever, not just today.

Quoting snglemama:" I know... but when I'm with him.. all is good. He's what I want. EVERYTHING I want.... I just want it forever, not just today."

You're too independent like me