re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Let's see I have This guyI went on a date with ONCE readded me on fb go me to text him and wants us to go on another date.. and i started talking to a guy I hung out with for a few weeks in Dec who I actually think I could like.. Also have my Fwb TALKING To me again.. and this other dude who wants it.. smurf i go from none to like 4

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" my update is.... The man i am in love with... turns out he is a smurfing dick. he moved back in with ... [snip!] ... he asked if i wnted to be with him). so im happy, and im glad i cut that fool off, and that i didnt get pregnant lmfao"

yay for you! happy for you too!!

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Let's see I have This guyI went on a date with ONCE readded me on fb go me to text him and wants us to ... [snip!] ... think I could like.. Also have my Fwb TALKING To me again.. and this other dude who wants it.. smurf i go from none to like 4"

lol! that's how it always is!

ok... so odd.. I got a call the other day from a guy I dated briefly last year. He was controlling.. and basically said if I ever talked to my ex (guy I'm seeing now) again we were done. smurf that.

anyway.. rofl.. I'm back with my guy now.. and this guy calls to tell me... he's dating the lady my guy was dating a few months ago! rofl.... he hated hearing his name come up.. and now he's dating ANOTHER of his exes! hehe!

Quoting snglemama:" lol! that's how it always is! ok... so odd.. I got a call the other day from a guy I dated briefly ... [snip!] ... my guy was dating a few months ago! rofl.... he hated hearing his name come up.. and now he's dating ANOTHER of his exes! hehe!"

lol thats really funny and akward

Every one is getting action. lol My FWB is pissing me the smurf off. I've had it. He's all super amazing and then he leaves and doesn't respond to any of my texts.... I'm not trying to date him, but when I WANT it, he should come bring it. And if I text him once every couple of days, a reply would be smurfing decent. Especially because he got on me about a phone working two ways way back when. I'd say next time he wants to come over I'll tell him to suck it. But I'm pretty sure he won't be asking. WTF. I hate when smurfs treat me like trash. Smurf. That's what I get for seeing a younger guy. smurf.

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Let's see I have This guyI went on a date with ONCE readded me on fb go me to text him and wants us to ... [snip!] ... think I could like.. Also have my Fwb TALKING To me again.. and this other dude who wants it.. smurf i go from none to like 4"

yay for dates.... i hope it is fun

Quoting Is that still my name?:" Every one is getting action. lol My FWB is pissing me the smurf off. I've had it. He's all super amazing ... [snip!] ... he won't be asking. WTF. I hate when smurfs treat me like trash. Smurf. That's what I get for seeing a younger guy. smurf."

I have one of those I just found another more reliable one so i didnt rely on him to much

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I have one of those I just found another more reliable one so i didnt rely on him to much"

Oooo you nailed it on the head. Reliability... THAT'S what I want.

Quoting Is that still my name?:" Oooo you nailed it on the head. Reliability... THAT'S what I want."

rofl... good luck with that. Reliability and man together? if you find that gem... he's smurfing married already. men DO FWB because they don't want to have to be reliable. They dont' want anyone to have expectations of them.

Quoting snglemama:" rofl... good luck with that. Reliability and man together? if you find that gem... he's smurfing married ... [snip!] ... already. men DO FWB because they don't want to have to be reliable. They dont' want anyone to have expectations of them."

i wont have expectations of you.... just of your dick lol.

Quoting snglemama:" rofl... good luck with that. Reliability and man together? if you find that gem... he's smurfing married ... [snip!] ... already. men DO FWB because they don't want to have to be reliable. They dont' want anyone to have expectations of them."

Ha ha ha... word.

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" i wont have expectations of you.... just of your dick lol."

Exactly...

Quoting Is that still my name?:" Exactly..."

lol!


I'm so unsure and confused about what I'm doing with my guy. Having no expectations and not worrying about the future with someone I want to marry and spend my life with is killing me.

when we're together.. it's smurfing great. but, we're both so busy we don't get much time together. Typically, I wouldn't bother unless it was going to be long term... but he doesn't want to talk about that because he gets anxious about the future.... but I need that reassurance.

meanwhile.. army guy.... keeps calling, texting telling me how much he misses me, loves me etc. He sent me a youtube link to Bruno Mars song "When I was Your Man" : ( he is always telling me he is seeing someone, but can't get hard for her... so he hasn't had sex.

I love the man I'm with... but wish he'd give me a little more reassurance that we're fine. I'm not usually this needy. Actually... usually I'm the one who doesn't deal with feelings well and stuff. but.. I worry that we're not on the same page... ugh.. I dont' know. just stressful putting my heart out there for someone and not knowing where I stand

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" i wont have expectations of you.... just of your dick lol."

hahahahha nice.. I spent friday night with one of my fwb.. we hang out thoug not to have sex and our kids have played together, and we've taken them all bowling, and ive baked for them lol.. IDK BUT friday was pretty awesome night for me with him lol.. until sat than drama started..