re: Official single moms/dating thread!

ok, I texted him last night asking him if it was awkward when I say "I love you" because I can't keep worrying I'm doing something to push him away, but I need to be me and say what I feel when I feel it. He texted back saying not to worry, it's fine, and we're good.

not exactly an "I love you too" but I"ll take it

Quoting snglemama:" ok, I texted him last night asking him if it was awkward when I say "I love you" because I can't keep ... [snip!] ... I feel it. He texted back saying not to worry, it's fine, and we're good. not exactly an "I love you too" but I"ll take it"

i remember i was sleeping with this guy and old him i liked him alot maybe more than i should and said are u okay i old you like is it ok? and he said its all good.. like wtf does that mean?

I'm gonna get some tonight!!

: D

guess things are fine.... he's just going slow. Trying not to be the crazy woman!

tonight.... gonna see him, great sex, and laying in his arms! best date possible!!

Quoting snglemama:" I'm gonna get some tonight!! : D guess things are fine.... he's just going slow. Trying not to be the crazy woman! tonight.... gonna see him, great sex, and laying in his arms! best date possible!!"

Ha ha. That's how I am once I'm actually into a guy. I'm either totally repulsed or totally feeling cray cray because I'm into them.
BE careful with him though! Hard to say I know!

Quoting Is that still my name?:" Ha ha. That's how I am once I'm actually into a guy. I'm either totally repulsed or totally feeling cray cray because I'm into them. BE careful with him though! Hard to say I know!"

had a great night last night.

ok... so I was insistent I was not going to bring up what we're doing, how he feels etc... but we had a good evening. And during sex, he randomly said "I love you too"

smurf. smile. damn it lol

so after we were laying there.. he asked me what was wrong. NOTHING. Im happy.... BUT... I said.. "ok, I'm fine with taking this one day at a time, not rushing into planning a future, picking up where we left off, but, you can't be reserved after all this time about how you feel about ME, just about the situation, and the future. You can't just love me during sex."

he says I don't just love you during sex. I told him "I" know that.... but HE needs to know that. I know he loves me, I've known every day for the last 14 months we should be together.. he's the one having trouble figuring this smurf out. told him it's awkward, that we can't just start fresh, we're too comfortable around each other. we know each other too well. He laughed and agreed, said he didn't realize he was being reserved. that he's happy, glad I'm here, etc... and that the other day he could tell I thought something was off, but he was stressed about work.

I told him I love him, and want to be with him, and he can always tell me that stuff. If I'm here, and he is stressed and needs to get something for work done.. he can do it. I don't expect his life to stop when I walk in his front door. I know we've been apart for awhile, but he needs to remember I'm pretty laid back.

so.. spent the night because I was on call at work. This morning I was getting ready to head home, he slept late because I kept him up late (haha!) and he said I could just hang out here today if I want since I'm coming back tonight. (hour drive) that he has work to do, but he's ok with me being here.

so... i'm here. : ) and it's comfortable. this is what I want. Just... being together. ugh..sound stupid? sorry for the long post! Going to work on homework today, and waste time on BG. and.. just be happy

Quoting snglemama:" I'm gonna get some tonight!! : D guess things are fine.... he's just going slow. Trying not to be the crazy woman! tonight.... gonna see him, great sex, and laying in his arms! best date possible!!"

I got some last night to aha

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I got some last night to aha"

yay!!

so... my army guy (or, ex) called last night. He;s seeing someone else.. misses me... apparently can't get it up for her. How horrible is it that I laughed? (not at him, but after I hung up) he's always a great boyfriend when we split.. but was always trying to cheat when we were together. Now he has someone else, but can only think about me when trying to have sex with her?

and.. she's a dumb ass. She pounced the day we broke up... and bitches because he talks about me and my kids too much. Stupid bitch, maybe wait for him to get over an ex before you pounce and he'll be more into you

Quoting snglemama:" yay!! so... my army guy (or, ex) called last night. He;s seeing someone else.. misses me... apparently ... [snip!] ... about me and my kids too much. Stupid bitch, maybe wait for him to get over an ex before you pounce and he'll be more into you"

Sounds like he misses what he cant have.. and maybe he shouldn't rebound.. men are so dumb

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Sounds like he misses what he cant have.. and maybe he shouldn't rebound.. men are so dumb"

It doesn't really matter... but I wonder if he'd be a better boyfriend if it weren't for our location issues. HE's army and can't stay, I have kids and can't move.

but... I never connected with him the way I do with the guy I'm dating now.. so doesn't matter. I know army guy loves me... more than he ever has anyone else... so I feel sad for him. however... he's also done some smurffy things and is lucky we were together as long as we were.

Quoting snglemama:" It doesn't really matter... but I wonder if he'd be a better boyfriend if it weren't for our location ... [snip!] ... else... so I feel sad for him. however... he's also done some smurffy things and is lucky we were together as long as we were."

maybe because you guys know that the circumsances would make it hard for you to have relationships? but sounds like you had something good while it lasted

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" maybe because you guys know that the circumsances would make it hard for you to have relationships? but sounds like you had something good while it lasted"

it was good, roller coaster, but good. it was what I needed.

where is everyone?

sorry I havne't been on... but.. . I've been spending time with my man! yes.. MY man. : ) we talked last night... and we're officially together again. : ) yes... lots of : ) I'm happy.

not sure what the future will bring. He gets anxious if he thinks about it because of custody with the kids and stuff. but.. says he's happy, with me, in today. and I said thats all I need. I'll take as many happy todays with him as I can get!

Quoting snglemama:" where is everyone? sorry I havne't been on... but.. . I've been spending time with my man! yes.. MY ... [snip!] ... but.. says he's happy, with me, in today. and I said thats all I need. I'll take as many happy todays with him as I can get!"

Not much new in the dating department.. there is a guy I used to have a thing with who has a GF (he was my rebound), but we stopped talking and than he started to inbox and text again and everytime he gets caught talking to me she takes it out on me, than within a day he is contacting me again.. kicker for me is she was preg again when he started talking again and than wed he contacted me and found out his GF gave birth tuesday.. was kinda like the smurf!... Judge if you want ladies lol I know it was a "homewrecker" thing to do but he is just as at fault as I was and he is the one who got caught Four times yet kept contacting me and she kept taking him back.. ANYWAYS

Other than that not much is going on in my life, I am in a hotel in lloydminister Alberta with my kids and EX we are going shopping today  .. but not getting back together I suppose.. IDK thats my update

Quoting snglemama:" where is everyone? sorry I havne't been on... but.. . I've been spending time with my man! yes.. MY ... [snip!] ... but.. says he's happy, with me, in today. and I said thats all I need. I'll take as many happy todays with him as I can get!"

congratulations!!!!! im so happy for u.....

my update is....

The man i am in love with... turns out he is a smurfing dick. he moved back in with is baby mama and then he stopped answering my calls or texts. so i blocked his number and his texts because im sick of being strung along and being hurt.

the guy i started dating last month ( the one my family took out to valentines dinner with us).... Turns out he is an AMAZING man. and im having so much fun with him. he took me and my son to chuckie cheese last night, he gets along with my son so well. I know i have a bad habit of jumping into things but i finally feel like im jumping into the right thing. jumping into something with a man who wants a family, wants to be married, wants to build a life.

anddd he asked me to be his girlfriend the other day (i broke down and had sex with him, and then the next morning he asked if i wnted to be with him).

so im happy, and im glad i cut that fool off, and that i didnt get pregnant lmfao