re: Official single moms/dating thread!

lmfao..
So i logged onto my POF and I swear to God this guy is the cockiest guy i've seen on there (least hes upfront) and like yeah.. here is a peice from his profile aha

I am looking for a woman who can listen to my commands. I know that sounds really bad, but I am extremely good looking with a very high paying job, so I do believe that I have some merit when I can request things like this. I am hit on constantly, so if I can have a woman who can listen to me, make me feel good when I want, then she can have all the things that she desires. I have a large home, and nice cars. You can be treated to supper at high class restaurants often.

Douche bag ALERT!!!..

heres the rest of this winners profile for those curious

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=26368946

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" lmfao.. So i logged onto my POF and I swear to God this guy is the cockiest guy i've seen on there (least ... [snip!] ... heres the rest of this winners profile for those curious http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=26368946"

rofl!!

I had someone message me constantly one one site.. I kept saying no. I saw him on POF.. and thought.. wtf... might as well chat.. messaged him and he went off about bitches with kids hitting on him. umm. .WHAT??

then, a week later messaged me saying.. "fine, I'm out of options, I'll meet you"..

smurf you dude.. I am NOT out of options. haha.. douche

another guy who was seriously freaking HOT. but... sent me a dick picture after messaging all day, I agreed to text. um... smurf you.. no.

omg... I want sex.

I want... 2 days... with no outside life.. just me and my guy naked in bed. NO homework, no work, no kids.. just 2 days.

sigh... but... he has a busy daytime job, with meetings sometimes at night. And... I have a full time night shift. So.. I cant even just snuggle up and stay the night often. Only like once every other week...

hey ladies, ive missed u guys!!!

too much going on in my life to even try to update. but i did meet a guy and he seems to be so perfect, but im just... skeptical

so this guy messages me on POF and he dated or had one night stands with a close friend of mine AND works with my ex.. so he tells me off calls me drama etc etc becuause i said uh no .. and than reported me to POF childish much

I'm driving myself insane. seriously... after a year apart, and him realizing he misses me.. and wants to try again.. how the smurf do you "start fresh"..

I'm not expecting to pick up where we left off, or to jump into marriage... but if he realizes he misses me so much he wants to try again... why do I feel so unsure of things? it's not even as easy as a new relationship.. at least them the man actively pursues you.. and you know they're interested. I'm second guessing everything! he tells me not to over think things.. but other than the first night when he said he loves me too... he's acting very reserved.

he won't be "together" we're "dating to see where it goes" isn't that what we smurfing did a year ago? if he doesn't know what he wants still... is it worth me putting my heart out there? ugh

Quoting snglemama:" I'm driving myself insane. seriously... after a year apart, and him realizing he misses me.. and wants ... [snip!] ... that what we smurfing did a year ago? if he doesn't know what he wants still... is it worth me putting my heart out there? ugh"

I know my ex says to me let's see where things go.. UH we've dated before can't you just say YES or NO you dont want to be with me.. It is smurfing irratatin

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I know my ex says to me let's see where things go.. UH we've dated before can't you just say YES or NO you dont want to be with me.. It is smurfing irratatin"

exactly! and.. he's not a douche... I know he's not using me for sex.. because for a year I offered it haha! I didn't want to bother dating anyone, just wanted sex and he said it was too emotional to have sex and not be with me.

but.. casually dating a man I'd marry any day? ugh... not telling him I love him every day because I don't want him to feel pushed? it's insane.

and.. if he said it last week, but won't again... did he realize suddenly he's not sure? wtf?

Quoting snglemama:" exactly! and.. he's not a douche... I know he's not using me for sex.. because for a year I offered ... [snip!] ... to feel pushed? it's insane. and.. if he said it last week, but won't again... did he realize suddenly he's not sure? wtf?"

No kidding wtf is right

So I have some news to share. I'm dating a guy who is 20. I'm 27. I had NO idea he was so young. He is my friend's cousin. Anyway... GOD I miss having a 20 year old's labido and physical abilities. lol Damn 100lbs I gained. Anyway.... He only really contacts me out of the blue.... this week we were kind of messaging a lot, but it's never about anything important. He will just randomly ask what I'm up to and come over. Sometimes I put out, sometimes I don't. Well last night he stayed the night... I worked early, so he had to leave. IDK... WTF is going on? Do booty calls stay the night? He has a daughter my age and is very good friends with her mom and their entire family.... he seems pretty outstanding... but I told him I didn't want anything serious...He's too young (i think?) I can't read him!!! WTF! lol I can't even read myself... Blah.

Quoting Is that still my name?:" So I have some news to share. I'm dating a guy who is 20. I'm 27. I had NO idea he was so young. He is ... [snip!] ... him I didn't want anything serious...He's too young (i think?) I can't read him!!! WTF! lol I can't even read myself... Blah."

honestly? i never thought booty calls stayed the night BUT.. yeah they sometimes do and sometimes cuddle and will wanna "hang out" there are no boundries sometimes

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" honestly? i never thought booty calls stayed the night BUT.. yeah they sometimes do and sometimes cuddle and will wanna "hang out" there are no boundries sometimes"

Yeah. He makes me swoon. I really like him. But he is 20 and is still trying to get over his BM. Bad mix.

Quoting Is that still my name?:" Yeah. He makes me swoon. I really like him. But he is 20 and is still trying to get over his BM. Bad mix."

yeah sounds like a rebound ugh.. i had a simliar situation I met a 22 year old (im 24) and we went on a date he said he didnt wanna date but would be friends. well than we were ganna do FWB and I didnt think I could do that.. so now he dont wanna talk to me anymore lmao

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" yeah sounds like a rebound ugh.. i had a simliar situation I met a 22 year old (im 24) and we went on ... [snip!] ... be friends. well than we were ganna do FWB and I didnt think I could do that.. so now he dont wanna talk to me anymore lmao"

OMG.... see he doesn't pester me about sex if I say no. He will still come hang out. Otherwise I wouldn't be able to stand him. I am very self-councious. So last night I made him get in his boxers and cuddle me. He said he was more than happy just d.oing that.... so then I nailed him lol

Quoting Is that still my name?:" OMG.... see he doesn't pester me about sex if I say no. He will still come hang out. Otherwise I wouldn't ... [snip!] ... night I made him get in his boxers and cuddle me. He said he was more than happy just d.oing that.... so then I nailed him lol"

nice..