re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" well, why dont u go. dont get ur hopes up and dont expect anything at all from him. just go for a nice ... [snip!] ... at the very least u get to go out and have a nice night. i love getting dressed up even if i know its just for my own benefit"

yea, I'm going to go. I figure... if nothing happens.. maybe I'll finally get the closer and realize it never will.
sigh... seriously though.. I'd marry this man and spend my life with him. (and I dont even really believe in marriage anymore)

I want to wake up next to him every day, and go to bed by his side everynight.

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I hear ya about exes or guys contacting you when you decied to give up.. I was texting this guy for ... [snip!] ... and me dissapointed and back at square one. ... I dont even know why i bother with men at all.. why are they all the same>?"

in my experience.. EVERY man will ask for those pictures. You have to assess their reaction when you tell them no. men are visual.. it's like sex.. they all want it. even the good ones will likely ahve sex with you too early... but unfortuantely they wont' respect you if you give in. Just say no.. and see how he reacts.

Quoting snglemama:" in my experience.. EVERY man will ask for those pictures. You have to assess their reaction when you ... [snip!] ... ahve sex with you too early... but unfortuantely they wont' respect you if you give in. Just say no.. and see how he reacts. "

\is it like a slut test or something aha??

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I hear ya about exes or guys contacting you when you decied to give up.. I was texting this guy for ... [snip!] ... and me dissapointed and back at square one. ... I dont even know why i bother with men at all.. why are they all the same>?"

Wow... I'm sorry...better that you found out sooner than later.  

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" \is it like a slut test or something aha??"

I think yes.. but unintentionally. Hell.. they all want sex.. they just dont' want to date/marry the easy girl

Quoting snglemama:" I think yes.. but unintentionally. Hell.. they all want sex.. they just dont' want to date/marry the easy girl"

Word.

So... I told my army guy that my old love asked me out... I was expecting a bad reaction as he can be immature. Even though we've established we wouldnt' let an opportunity pass us.. I was worried he'd be hurt over who it is...

he replied.. :I understand. I dont' like it, but understand. I love you, will talk to you when I get to work. (he left his phone at work overnight, I FB messaged him. Sounds insensitive.. but he refuses to have serious conversations unless via text lol)

I started tearing up... he can be so sweet and understanding

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I hear ya about exes or guys contacting you when you decied to give up.. I was texting this guy for ... [snip!] ... and me dissapointed and back at square one. ... I dont even know why i bother with men at all.. why are they all the same>?"

I agree! I hate this. I have a guy texting me a lot right now and I haven't figured out yet where he wants these texts

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY LADIES!!

Quoting Is that still my name?:" HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY LADIES!!"

: D

I'm so nervous about tonight!!

He said start fresh.... so.. no going back to his place right? cause.. I certainly woudln't on a first date!! haha

Quoting snglemama:" : D I'm so nervous about tonight!! He said start fresh.... so.. no going back to his place right? cause.. I certainly woudln't on a first date!! haha"

The entire situation sounds iffy to me... I like to leave the past in the past.. but I don't always play by my own rules. lol Just be careful... you never know what will become of any relationship, but you can always have safe fun!

Happy Valentines Day Ladies!!!

SO is out of town for a pool tournament. He will be gone for 4 days so we will not be doing Valentines. I'm not upset about it because I never really celebrated it. He did promise me dinner at our favorite Thai place when he gets back.
I surprised DD with a doll she has been wanting and a small box of chocolates. She loved it.

Quoting Is that still my name?:" Word."

haha nice.. thoughts so.. SmUrfrfrfrfrfrfrfrfrfrfrfrfrf I hate valintines day never have enjoyed this stupid day

Quoting Chloe's mommy*:" I agree! I hate this. I have a guy texting me a lot right now and I haven't figured out yet where he wants these texts"

Like I think I may have a tad overreacted about the picture thing, but Id like to get ot know someone before sending them pictures of my bits and peices.. if you know what I mean

Quoting Alfies Mama:" Happy Valentines Day Ladies!!! SO is out of town for a pool tournament. He will be gone for 4 days so ... [snip!] ... Thai place when he gets back. I surprised DD with a doll she has been wanting and a small box of chocolates. She loved it."

im ganna make mine angry birds valintines lol.. Im broke till next week but they do get ALOT