re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" no i dont wanna be positive lol.... but honestly iy all turned into a big mess, i dont know who is lying anymore because everyone is telling me differently"

I dont blame you I would be PISSED as hell because he drug you along for the time that he did..

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I know this thread is for dating but i had spend more time in here than any ohter thread soooo.. I finally ... [snip!] ... to get what my kids are owed and be civil.. ANyways i know this is just for dating but i feel safe here.. sorry its off topic"

any topic is ok! I mostly made this thread because I used to frequent kicking and screaming... but it became a chat thread.. and I had nothing in common with those ladies. So.. I figured I'd make friends on BG by starting a single moms/dating thread. chatting is fine!

talk about whatever you want!

at least he told you though! (it's something right?) and didn't try to take LO anyway?

my ex is a douche. Ugh.. my 4 year old keeps coming home telling me "daddy doesn't care about you, he says it all the time. No one at that house cares about you. But I love you, caring about you means loving you"

wtf?

Quoting snglemama:" any topic is ok! I mostly made this thread because I used to frequent kicking and screaming... but it ... [snip!] ... you, he says it all the time. No one at that house cares about you. But I love you, caring about you means loving you" wtf? "

What a DICK! Seriously...even if you were an awful person and he had every reason to hate you, he would STILL be hurting his kids by saying so about their mother. I don't know how you were ever married to that man.

Quoting Little Vine:" What a DICK! Seriously...even if you were an awful person and he had every reason to hate you, he would ... [snip!] ... you, he would STILL be hurting his kids by saying so about their mother. I don't know how you were ever married to that man."

haha.. you should see his picture! (not that looks are everything) but ugh. he pretended to be nice...

it is sad though... Obviously I don't care about him either. BUT. I don't tell her that! it makes her sad to hear someone doesn't care about mommy. And... it's been 3 visits now. Apparently it comes up a lot. I can imagine the conversation... I'm sure she talks about mommy.... because she's a (almost) 4 year old girl! How often does he reply with "I dont' care about mommy" ugh!!!

ok.. so I've been chatting with this guy. ugh. he's almost 3 hours away. i NEVER do long distance. Anyone who knows me.. knows i already had my heart broken once because of where I live. I can't move.

but.. he sent me a message saying.. "too bad you live so far away" and we both agreed it's too far... and so we started chatting as friends. He's funny, sweet. We seem to connect well. Now he wants to meet. but ... ugh. I don't want to do a long distance relationship. he says not to worry about it.. we can just be flirty friends. but... why meet then? I dont' want to like someone 3 hours away.

another guy has been messaging occasionally.. but I've decided he's married. He's very unavailable.. very busy. Asks me out.. but only last minute. If I can't... he won't make future plans. Red flag to me. Makes me wonder if he asks me out when his wife goes out with friends or something.. it's odd

Quoting snglemama:" ok.. so I've been chatting with this guy. ugh. he's almost 3 hours away. i NEVER do long distance. Anyone ... [snip!] ... future plans. Red flag to me. Makes me wonder if he asks me out when his wife goes out with friends or something.. it's odd"

that IS odd, i would stay away from both because it just seems too easy for u too get hurt that way =(

ok ladies...

im going out of town for a week, to visit my friends that i just moved away from lol... which also means i have to see the guy (Im gunna call him P ).... i hope all turns out well, he told me over 3 or 4 times that he did NOT get back with his daughters mother, and i dont know if i believe him or not. i guess i will see how this week goes tho...

Quoting snglemama:" any topic is ok! I mostly made this thread because I used to frequent kicking and screaming... but it ... [snip!] ... you, he says it all the time. No one at that house cares about you. But I love you, caring about you means loving you" wtf? "

Lol my son we were laying in bed this morning and hes like "your not allowed at daddy's anymore because your to rough with daddys stuff" ( i had bought him a CD and he had pissed me off to the max and wouldnt go away so i broke this cd i bought him in half childish YES) and he says "you broke daddys faviorte song in the van".. ugh i feel like smurf hearing that but my kids are forever telling me dady hates you and dont want you in his house woopi lol

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Lol my son we were laying in bed this morning and hes like "your not allowed at daddy's anymore because ... [snip!] ... ugh i feel like smurf hearing that but my kids are forever telling me dady hates you and dont want you in his house woopi lol"

just reinforce that's fine... it doesn't bother you. They don't need to see drama. ((hugs)) sucks

Quoting snglemama:" just reinforce that's fine... it doesn't bother you. They don't need to see drama. ((hugs)) sucks"

i am trying because its 100% over between us lets move on ya know

Quoting snglemama:" rofl! or.. worse.. when they black out the woman's face! haha! or.. smurfing dick pics. Seriously... ... [snip!] ... and that dick.. if real... enough to keep one... since he must not really have anything to offer a woman.. I wans't interested."

I like your response to that picture. I'm not ready to try online dating yet. :-/ I just don't know if that would be the way to go.

Quoting Chloe's mommy*:" I like your response to that picture. I'm not ready to try online dating yet. :-/ I just don't know if that would be the way to go."

its frustrating I will tell you that one for sure

<blockquote><b>Quoting Beanie's Breeder:</b>" i wouldnt introduce him to her either! how long have u guys been together?? and if you guys are having ... [snip!] ... and if you guys are having huge fights like that, maybe u should stick to not introducing her to him for another month or so?"</blockquote>


We have been dating for two months. I'm over it. I feel like I have to prove that I'm trustworthy and faithful 24/7. He has bad trust issues and it gets in the way of our relationship too much. I work at a casino and I work with guys. Yes I flirt but it's friendly flirting. It's never taken farther then playful banter. He thinks I'm kissing guys and texting guys and meeting up with guys. It's annoying that he doesn't trust me. I even stopped the flirting because it bugged him. Now I'm just over it. I'm gonna call it quits because it's reminding me too much of my marriage.

On another note. There is this security guard that I always talk to. He understands the whole single parent thing because he has full custody of his kids. He gave me his number and said if I ever needed to talk or if I needed advice on my divorce he is here for me. I thought it was nice.

Hey.. so heres a question if your starting up FWB with someone sometimes you set ground rules, is one of the rules usually you can't sleep with anyone else??

Ive never had this rule but kinda agree with it.. thoughts

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:</b>" Hey.. so heres a question if your starting up FWB with someone sometimes you set ground rules, is one ... [snip!] ... is one of the rules usually you can't sleep with anyone else?? Ive never had this rule but kinda agree with it.. thoughts"</blockquote>




Meh. I guess it depends. I would def not want him sleeping with a bunch of randoms unprotected. That's for sure.