re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Quoting Chloe's mommy*:" This is the problem that I'm have too. I only have ANY availability every other Saturday night. I don't ... [snip!] ... want my daughter to meet anyone till its serious and this doesn't really even hardly allow enough time to meet, much less date"

I am hardly available either mon and wed nights and every second weekend so not much.. i just feel like i will never be what someone is looking for ugh..

I'm not shallow. But I am picky. I cannot stand skinny guys. I like a little muscle or a good build. Also teeth are a big deal to me. That's the first thing I notice on anyone.

Height is also a big deal I'm 5'5. And I want someone who's at least 5'11. Haha. I guess maybe I'm to picky.

Is it bad that I wouldn't date a guy who dressed bad.. I don't know why that matters to me lol.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" I'm not shallow. But I am picky. I cannot stand skinny guys. I like a little muscle or a good build. ... [snip!] ... I guess maybe I'm to picky. Is it bad that I wouldn't date a guy who dressed bad.. I don't know why that matters to me lol."

no.... I have a lot that matters to me. I just posted the absolute deal breakers lol.

I'm not usually attracted to skinny guys either. I want them healthy.. not obese, but have always gone for stockier men.

I made an exception... dated a skinny man. But... it made me feel fat. I do realize that's my issue not his... but it's still an issue. Add to it that his work outs were more important than absolutely anything in his life.... I couldn't deal with it. (first night I ever stayed over.. he had to crawl out of bed at 530 am to go work out...

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" no.... I have a lot that matters to me. I just posted the absolute deal breakers lol. I'm not usually ... [snip!] ... his life.... I couldn't deal with it. (first night I ever stayed over.. he had to crawl out of bed at 530 am to go work out..."</blockquote>



That's how my ex husband was. He's a bodybuilder so he cares so much about what he eats and working out. He looked good tho haha.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" I'm not shallow. But I am picky. I cannot stand skinny guys. I like a little muscle or a good build. ... [snip!] ... I guess maybe I'm to picky. Is it bad that I wouldn't date a guy who dressed bad.. I don't know why that matters to me lol."

I just replied to this one to join convo aha but.. Yeah I have a prob dating guys that are bigger or have a tummy, I know i am not a skinny woman but it doesnt attract me for some reason.. and guys my age seem like children

Quoting snglemama:" see.. I think the short women should take the short men! haha.. jk.. kinda! I'm 5'6. so.. yea. I get ... [snip!] ... it either. I just don't trust army guy. He's nice... and comfortable... but wouldn't hesitate to move on either. (complicated)"

i understand that... sometimes its those casual convos that grow into more, and sometimes they just let you relax and enjoy someone to talk to

Quoting snglemama:" ok.. I know looks aren't everything... and not even the most important thing to me. BUT... I'll be honest.. ... [snip!] ... picture of him. Not until after we broke up did I realize.. he was ugly. But.. I found him HOT because he was so smurfing tall!"

Teeth and no education are absolute deal breakers for me.

I think I'm on a bit of a skank rampage. I'm so NOT easy.... but it's really nice knowing after gaining 100lbs and after losing 230lbs of smurf, I still got it.   I should feel bad... but I don't. And that scares me. lol

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" I'm not shallow. But I am picky. I cannot stand skinny guys. I like a little muscle or a good build. ... [snip!] ... I guess maybe I'm to picky. Is it bad that I wouldn't date a guy who dressed bad.. I don't know why that matters to me lol."

ha ha. You sound like me. The NICEST guy I ever dated had bad teeth and was a twig. I dumped him. I feel so bad. But he has a wonderful wife now so that makes me happy. I forgot to add skinny to my package. Even before I was 280lbs I still could not do skinny. I like simi-noticable muscles with a little bit of chunk over.

Quoting snglemama:" yay!~ was the the first "I love you"?? how long have you been dating again? (too lazy to go back and read past posts)"

Sorry I'm just getting to this!
It wasn't the first one   He told me the first time on New Years day. We've been together about a couple months now. I can't believe how fast time is going by!

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" I'm not shallow. But I am picky. I cannot stand skinny guys. I like a little muscle or a good build. ... [snip!] ... I guess maybe I'm to picky. Is it bad that I wouldn't date a guy who dressed bad.. I don't know why that matters to me lol."

your not shallow! i totally totally settled and it got me no where... but 2 great girls. its ok to have things you dont want to compromise on!

Quoting Is that still my name?:" I think I'm on a bit of a skank rampage. I'm so NOT easy.... but it's really nice knowing after gaining ... [snip!] ... gaining 100lbs and after losing 230lbs of smurf, I still got it.   I should feel bad... but I don't. And that scares me. lol"

Lol you ar so not a skank.. I kinda went through that to in one month i slept with three diff guys BUT one was one i had a thing with, one was the ex and another was a friend of mine.. but it is a huge ego boost to know we still gots it

<blockquote><b>Quoting ReesieLove...:</b>" your not shallow! i totally totally settled and it got me no where... but 2 great girls. its ok to have things you dont want to compromise on!"</blockquote>


Thanks. Makes me feel a lot better.

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Lol you ar so not a skank.. I kinda went through that to in one month i slept with three diff guys BUT ... [snip!] ... one i had a thing with, one was the ex and another was a friend of mine.. but it is a huge ego boost to know we still gots it"

totally... that's where I'm at.

So, my BD and I got out of a really bad relationship a few weeks ago. He was breaking everything in our house, putting holes in the walls and being a complete dick. We moved out & I went to my moms. I just got passed the crazy/"I lost everything, what am I going to do" stage and decided to start dating again. Any tips?

Im also pregnant with our 2nd child and I have a 20 month old daughter.
A little extra background, we were together for 6 years. But we fought and broke up a lot... more so lately. But this time hes shown me that he really doesnt care about me so Im done trying to make things work. It hurts but I dont have a choice but to move on.