re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Me personally I wait a longgg time before I have sex with someone. But then again I've never really dated either. I was with my ex bf for 3 years. Waited 2 years before we had sex. And then I met my husband who I dated like 3 weeks before we did anything. Then we got married. So I haven't really had a lot if partners.

If the sex was awful but the relationship was great... well, you can always learn, right? I guess I would stick around and see what happened. Bad relationship, though... don't care how good the sex is.

I have not, however, been able to sleep with the guy I've been sorta seeing. I feel way too weird about it, being pregnant. IDK, maybe I'm crazy. I feel trashy enough not being with my children's father. :/ And then with a newborn it probably won't happen until he's ready to take off for his PHD :/

Quoting anonymom + 1.5:" If the sex was awful but the relationship was great... well, you can always learn, right? I guess I would ... [snip!] ... with my children's father. :/ And then with a newborn it probably won't happen until he's ready to take off for his PHD :/"

i know that feeling. i met my ex fiance right b4 i found out i was pregnant. i was already broken up with the donor and everything... we didnt have sex for a lonnnng time into my pregnancy cause i felt like s sleeze bag....

but then i got over it lol. we were together until beans was 3. he was def the best man i have ever been with

Me if i really like the guy i have a hard time NOT sleeping with him or something in that ball park BUT i havn't had sex with anyone new in a long time and have changed my game so that's not all guys want from me, I feel like i am worth the wait... Do you ladies know any good dating sites for single moms?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:</b>" Me if i really like the guy i have a hard time NOT sleeping with him or something in that ball park BUT ... [snip!] ... that's not all guys want from me, I feel like i am worth the wait... Do you ladies know any good dating sites for single moms?"</blockquote>




Someone told me once that if a guy really only wants se it doesn't matter if you make him wait a day or a month. Nothing's gonna 'change that. Current boyfran I waited 8 days to sleep with him.   we have been together for only three months and although we do have a lot of sex it hasn't turned into just sex.


And like a lot of you I like knowing what kind of sexual partner I'm dealing with from the beginning.  

I just found this from the single parenting forum. Sorry to just go in this random.

SO the guy I told you guys i went on a date with like a few weeks ago, he started texting me at 5 am and was saying he had a crappy new years and that he just wanted to cuddle with someone, and i joked well my magic carpets in the shop.. he wanted to come over at 5am he said just to cuddle but i've been hurt way to many times to like just give in a let him come here, he said he only wanted to cuddle no sex and he is frustrated that i wont trust him or give him a chance.. I honesty cant help it my guard just stays way up, he said it's okay that I am worth the wait hes sure of it he just wishes i'd give him a shot..
What do you ladies think should i try and see him tonight and let him come to my apartment?? or do you think theres a reason my guard has not gone down.

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Me if i really like the guy i have a hard time NOT sleeping with him or something in that ball park BUT ... [snip!] ... that's not all guys want from me, I feel like i am worth the wait... Do you ladies know any good dating sites for single moms?"

i have that issue as well. i like sex too much and im not good at being affectionate so i end up having sex when i want to feel close to someone

Quoting Beanie's Breeder:" i have that issue as well. i like sex too much and im not good at being affectionate so i end up having sex when i want to feel close to someone"

This is me to a T and i dont know if it is because I feel like thats all i have to offer men or if i actually like it

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" ok ladies... let's spice this up... how soon do you ahve sex with a prospect? if it's bad... does he ... [snip!] ... had to break it off...and realy missed him for awhile. great guy..but i need good sex. so... let's talk about sex ladies!"</blockquote>




I had a FWB but we called it off because we were getting attached to each other. With him it took me a month to finally have sex with him. The guy I'm dating now, well I had sex with him the first night 😳. We started off kissing and I couldn't help myself after that. He is a really good kisser. We have been dating for 5 weeks an things are going good. The sex is really good and we have a great connection.

I'm 100% single again. My semi-boyfriend and I broke up. I feel...free

Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:" I'm 100% single again. My semi-boyfriend and I broke up. I feel...free"

sorry? but woo freedom

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" This is me to a T and i dont know if it is because I feel like thats all i have to offer men or if i actually like it"

for me its both, i kno i can hold out but then i feel like im punishing myself lol

I dont' know what I am right now.

I've talkeda bout how great my army guy is.... but that I'm in love with someone else. well.. army guys been trying to cheat anyway... and the other day he left his phone inmy bed while he got up and made breakfast for my kids (I had worked all night). he started getting texts from another girl asking when eh was coming to see her..I snooped..and also found a topless pic of his ex girlfriend... sent 3 days ago.

but... I'm not in love with him anyway... and I enjoy what we have. We're never getting married...a nd I start school again soon. Think I'll just stay in it...with eyes open for now. We talked... basically we enjoy each others company...but both want "more"...but dont' want to be single and alone in the meantime. So.. whatever that means. We agreed to tell the other one (not sure I believe him)...if we meet someone else we want to pursue.

so..we still went out for New years.... and I let him pay for it all since he was being a dick and trying to cheat. Yea...he spent well over $500... plus breakfast, dinner, and a movie today.... (normally I take turns paying with him).... I dont' feel guilty in the least, and I had a blast.

Quoting snglemama:" I dont' know what I am right now. I've talkeda bout how great my army guy is.... but that I'm in love ... [snip!] ... dinner, and a movie today.... (normally I take turns paying with him).... I dont' feel guilty in the least, and I had a blast."

great!! if you don't like him just hang out with him