re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Quoting Olive ♥:" Anything new happen?!"

So I put on my big girl panties qns and just asked him when he would wanna hang out again? And he said we'd with a question mark... So we're going to watch season one of American horror story at my place and have drinks   ... I'm going to try and put off any intimacy though since that's that's where most of my relationships go down hill... Plus I'm on my period so kinda gives me a good excuse... But maybe I will try and get cuddles so we will see... I will keep you ladies posted

Quoting snglemama:" smurf smurf smurf smurf smurf... took a first response test... idk... a friend and I both think there may ... [snip!] ... faint line. still.. probably just paranoid right? even if positive... likely ectopic... gonna ask doc for a blood test. "

 
Hope you can get in for a blood test asap!! That would be so crazy. I don't think I've ever heard of that happening.

Agreed.. hope your okay

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Oh yikees maama can u post a pic of the test? Good luck with whatever u choose "

I did....

then had a blood test... negative! *happy dance!*

Quoting snglemama:" I did.... then had a blood test... negative! *happy dance!*"

happy dance!!! ;)

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" So I put on my big girl panties qns and just asked him when he would wanna hang out again? And he said ... [snip!] ... period so kinda gives me a good excuse... But maybe I will try and get cuddles so we will see... I will keep you ladies posted"

Idk how I missed this!!

That's exciting! Hopefully it goes great! Get a couple cuddles ;)

Quoting snglemama:" I did.... then had a blood test... negative! *happy dance!*"

What a relief for you!!  

Quoting Olive ♥:" Idk how I missed this!! That's exciting! Hopefully it goes great! Get a couple cuddles ;)"

Now I am not so sure I want to hang out with him now.. My ex had me come over and we hung out and i was ganna spend the night but he hasn't been talkign to me for a week and he suddenly changed, so i got snoopy looked through his phone and saw he has been talkign to a so called friend of mine who has become distant since November and they've been talking and he said they could see eachother secretly if she wants and no one has to know there together, and some stuff abuot me not putting mitts on my son and callig me stupid, and him saying im not aloud to be happy remember and her saying oh well she will have to get over it.. I feel so smurfign hurt and betrayed this girl is the one who encouraged me to leave him to be happy, adn talked smurf on him and told me to go to lawyers and blah blah blah.... I defended her to hell and high waters when people said something was going on with thim and now I found this .. I punched the smurf outta my EX and went home but than he had me come back, but i feel like my trust is shot to hell how can I even trust anyone again.. *sigh*

SO I told this guy i may not be able to hang out... i feel like its not ganna work out anyways.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:</b>" Now I am not so sure I want to hang out with him now.. My ex had me come over and we hung out and i ... [snip!] ... trust anyone again.. *sigh* SO I told this guy i may not be able to hang out... i feel like its not ganna work out anyways."</blockquote>


It seems like your ex SO is bringing you back, because he knows your moving on. So hes suckering you in. Like he stated to your "friend" you cant be happy. So hes trying to take your happiness by ending it with that other guy.. Once you do, he will ignore you.

Dont let him win. Dont get involved with him.. Once you do, you will make it harder for yourself to move on. dont look back girls, those miles are behind you.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:</b>" Now I am not so sure I want to hang out ... [snip!] ... with him.. Once you do, you will make it harder for yourself to move on. dont look back girls, those miles are behind you."

He tells her I dont let him be happy and anyone he meets i scare off... when your carrying on with me and saying you want to try and work it out than as soon as i agree he pulls away its smurfign annoying.. I think i might still have him over tonight why not? im not having sex with him were just friends.. for now like grr

i know i shouldnt have gone through his phone but he lies to me.. im trying to stay away from him but at night i get lonely..  
Also he said i have no reason to be mad at him because we are not together, truthfully i fully exspected it from him im more mad at her she was supposed to be a friend, and after all the smurf she said HE cause there suddently friends again.. it's so hard to just let Karma take this bitch but i will do it that way

So do you all with kids approach relationships with the "this is for fun" or "I'm looking for a life partner" outlook?

Just wondering. A friend has been pushing for more than friendship and I'm not sure how to explain the last thing I'm looking for is a husband at the moment. I'm not trying to be misleading by letting something develop, but I'm not out to find a partner, either, if that makes sense at all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting anonymom + 1.5:</b>" So do you all with kids approach relationships with the "this is for fun" or "I'm looking for a life ... [snip!] ... trying to be misleading by letting something develop, but I'm not out to find a partner, either, if that makes sense at all."</blockquote>




Just be honest about what you want. Sometimes i just want fun. When i don't want a relationship, i wouldn't date someone who does.

Ugh been separated for almost 6 months, haven't have sex in like forever and just had to move to a new state and live with my parents... Ugh I just want a great big man hug lol

Quoting ReesieLove...:" Ugh been separated for almost 6 months, haven't have sex in like forever and just had to move to a new state and live with my parents... Ugh I just want a great big man hug lol"

I know how that is.. but hugging leads to cuddlign which leads to other wonderful man things lol