re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Quoting Olive ♥:" Thanks!! and I'm sorry   It can really suck not having anybody. I had been so deprived of affection until lately. Not fun!!"

im real scared to have anybody tbh... im so used to having friends

Quoting Olive ♥:" Thanks!! and I'm sorry   It can really suck not having anybody. I had been so deprived of affection until lately. Not fun!!"

hopefully soon haha ;) do you guys text

Quoting ☆ IVAN'S MAMI:" hopefully soon haha ;) do you guys text"

Yes we do! Not alll day constantly, but I get cute little messages throughout the day   He's more of a "talk on the phone" type person.

Quoting Olive ♥:" Yes we do! Not alll day constantly, but I get cute little messages throughout the day   He's more of a "talk on the phone" type person."

i love talking on the phone. cute ;)

so let me introduce my self.. I'm Jessica I have a 5 year old and I'm pregnant again almost 19 weeks.. yet in single again. I was tired of the emotional abuse an the cheating and lies... even though we recently broke up I've known it was bad in September. right now I'm not looking to date until after Noah comes.. but I did my fair share of dating after Randy ( kaylees dad) and before Greg (noahs dad) I did okc and pof ... coworkers and meeting people at stores even been set up.. I miss just going on dates

He tested me but I feel like it's not going to go anywhere. He will ask how I am or what I am doing? But he hasn't asked to see me again, so I don't know where we're at... He doesn't know. My custody schedule though so IDK

Quoting Olive ♥:" Here is my update...   I posted it in the other thread I made too, but I'm adding onto it in here haha. ... [snip!] ... We both agreed we wouldn't be seeing anyone else. I am extremely happy. I think we're gonna play with the kids today.  "

sounds great! (sorry, haven't been on much lately)

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" He tested me but I feel like it's not going to go anywhere. He will ask how I am or what I am doing? ... [snip!] ... But he hasn't asked to see me again, so I don't know where we're at... He doesn't know. My custody schedule though so IDK"

Anything new happen?!

Quoting Olive ♥:" Anything new happen?!"

Not really now, I text him a couple times and yesterday I asked him if he would wanna hang out again and he said of course, but he hasn't really texted me even to say whats up, ive texted him though said hey hows it goin

Well, after talking to this guy and seeing him almost every day of the week, I've found too many red flags.

1. Drinks too much.
2. Smokes too much.
3. Smokes pot too much.
4. He's the middleman for i don't even know how many drug deals.
5. His kid doesn't live with him, when he has full custody.
6. Has a warrant out.
7. Lying to me about going out with other girls. We weren't official, but we still had that conversation twice, and lied both times.
8. Doesn't have a decent job.

I'm positive there are more, but I lose track. I really like him, and he gives me butterflies and crap, but he obviously has some issues he needs to deal with. I don't want it around my kid. Maybe if he ever gets his smurf together I'll try it again.

I'm glad it doesn't take me long to figure a person out. lol. Back to not dating for a while. I'll just focus on school and my health until that Marine gets home in a couple weeks..

Quoting Olive ♥:" Well, after talking to this guy and seeing him almost every day of the week, I've found too many red ... [snip!] ... lol. Back to not dating for a while. I'll just focus on school and my health until that Marine gets home in a couple weeks.."

wow those are quite a few Red flags...

I feel like everytime i get hope for dating it's pulled out from under me.. *sigh*.
The one guy i went on a date with he has not asked me to hang out again but said he would want to again but hasnt asked, and barely texts.. so I will take that as a hint he is not intrested.. ugh guess ill go back to doing FWB with my guy friend

<blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" Well, after talking to this guy and seeing him almost every day of the week, I've found too many red ... [snip!] ... lol. Back to not dating for a while. I'll just focus on school and my health until that Marine gets home in a couple weeks.."</blockquote>




Good for you for seeing it and walking away.

I'm... 4 days late on my period. Negative test, and I've had a tubal ligation... Still hard not to worry.

smurf smurf smurf smurf smurf...

took a first response test... idk... a friend and I both think there may be a faint line.

still.. probably just paranoid right? even if positive... likely ectopic...

gonna ask doc for a blood test.

Quoting snglemama:" smurf smurf smurf smurf smurf... took a first response test... idk... a friend and I both think there may ... [snip!] ... faint line. still.. probably just paranoid right? even if positive... likely ectopic... gonna ask doc for a blood test. "

Oh yikees maama can u post a pic of the test? Good luck with whatever u choose