re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Quoting .tay.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" Ladies.... I have a boyfriend!!  "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... The genyleman that feel of the face of the earth? Ooohhhh. How fun! The beginnings of relationships are so fun."

Noo, not that guy   He had way too many issues.

But I agree! We're having lots of fun. He's very family oriented, which I love. And he's a country boy, so we get to go out and fish and hunt and ride our horses together! I really hope this works out. Some people wont' agree with this, but idc. I took LO to meet him, and we played with his roommates little boy, so it was casual, more like a play date. He was so good with him.   He had toys ready and got down on the floor and played with him. He helped me chase him around the room when he got into stuff. He understands that we have to work around the baby's schedule. Something none of the other guys I talked to ever understood.

Hoping things keep going this great!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" Noo, not that guy   He had way too many issues. But I agree! We're having lots of fun. He's very family ... [snip!] ... the baby's schedule. Something none of the other guys I talked to ever understood. Hoping things keep going this great!"</blockquote>




My LO met my so pretty early on. We aren't overly affectionate or anything in front of him or anything. So I can't really pass judgement. Good luck! He sounds awesome. It's def hard to find a guy (especially without kids) that realizes how crazy a mommy schedule is!

Quoting .tay.:" Boyfriend told me he loved me last night. Let the hurt begin since he's still moving in three months."

aww... you're not moving with him?

Quoting Olive ♥:" Ladies.... I have a boyfriend!!  "

congrats!

My army guy and I are doing well... complicated though.. since the man I'm in love with contacted me again last week. Ugh... talking about possibly getting back together if he can convince his kids it would be fine if he moved. (half hour move, not far). but he wont' do it without his kids approval... and won't be with me if we can't eventually move in together.

it hurts.. and sucks. I love him.. but hate the back and forth. Especially.. when things are going great with the relationship I'm in.

smurf.. dating is complicated.

I'm talking to a guy.   I know that's not a big deal, but it's been so long since I even had a texting buddy! I'm excited!

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I know how you feel mama.. my ex is pulling the same stuff on me right now, i have slept with one guy ... [snip!] ... last week he stopped wanting to have me around and stuff so he found someoen... i say you have earned the right to casual date"

Wow.. men suck.. I'm sorry. My husband says he wants to work it out.. but at the same time he's showing no signs of wanting to move back in.. I don't even know if I want to work it out with him right now though. :/

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I have a real date tomorrow I'm pretty excited he's taking me to dinner and a movie and drinks  ... Kinda nervous because we are going to a bigger city an hr away but hope it goes well

The guy took the new job and he'll be moving January 1st. It's probably for the best. After he dropped the bomb about his past drug issues (who the hell makes a relationship official, and THEN drops that bomb?!) I was thinking about everything, and it's probably not a good idea to involve myself and my child in that. At all.

On to the next!! Lmao. That sounds really bad, but at least I'm finding out these guys aren't what I want! I'm not settling.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" The guy took the new job and he'll be moving January 1st. It's probably for the best. After he dropped ... [snip!] ... On to the next!! Lmao. That sounds really bad, but at least I'm finding out these guys aren't what I want! I'm not settling."</blockquote>



That sounds like the best thing for you. Good luck on finding.the.next.  

Quoting Olive ♥:" The guy took the new job and he'll be moving January 1st. It's probably for the best. After he dropped ... [snip!] ... On to the next!! Lmao. That sounds really bad, but at least I'm finding out these guys aren't what I want! I'm not settling."

I'm not sticking up for him, but there's never a good time to say "By the way, I'm a recovering drug addict." Haha. I don't blame him for waiting, but he should have told you ahead of time especially since you have a child.

I'm sorry dear. Just say "Next!" and keep on keeping on!

Quoting Olive ♥:" The guy took the new job and he'll be moving January 1st. It's probably for the best. After he dropped ... [snip!] ... On to the next!! Lmao. That sounds really bad, but at least I'm finding out these guys aren't what I want! I'm not settling."

That really sucks you just start to get to know eachother and make it official and he is leaving   and he had a drug problem dont mean he still does but i know relapse probably crosses your mind..

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" I'm not sticking up for him, but there's never a good time to say "By the way, I'm a recovering drug ... [snip!] ... have told you ahead of time especially since you have a child. I'm sorry dear. Just say "Next!" and keep on keeping on!"

That is exactly what I did! Already have a date planned for Thursday   It's a guy from high school. Known him for years. I had a major crush on him and so did every other girl in our high school lol. We had a play date today and he asked me out.   No way in hell I would ever turn that sexy man down. Ha!
I am so glad nobody but BG and my mom knows about my dating life. I've really been goin through the guys lately!

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I have a real date tomorrow I'm pretty excited he's taking me to dinner and a movie and drinks  ... Kinda nervous because we are going to a bigger city an hr away but hope it goes well"

Good luck!   You'll have to tell us how it goes.