re: Official single moms/dating thread!

holy crap.. my guy bought me a Kindle Fire HD, 8.9 inch for Christmas... and let me have it early!!

: D

he rocks

smurf... ex boyfriend texted at 1 am... bitching about me dating my guy. Everytime I start moving on and doing well.. he does this. I'm smurfing in love with the guy.. the whole soul mates, other half bullsmurf. And yet.. we aren't together. Custody issues. We can't be together.. so smurfing leave me alone.

Me to I give up on dating I am all for fwb but it seems every guy I meet is super interested for a few weeks than drifts away. I've slept with one guy few times (33) but he's always busy and I always text him first and hint at sex and he did the reply to those text atleast not in past month so I should definitely take a hint.
I was doing fwb with my ex BD but that's gotten boring and he's acting distant .... It kinda sucks I feel so like unattractive, I did meet one guy 33 (diff one) but he lives an hour away and the text have died down and we barely can hold a conversation... It's just so hard because men don't wanna accept the package ugh

MEN FRUSTRATE ME TO NO END. Boyfriend is getting distant. Honeymoon stage is supposed to last longer than a couple of months. I havent seen him for over a week and I barely texted besides a few good mornings or good nights. I shouldnt be the only one texting and calling and showing effort only to be blown off. Im gonna cool it with him for a while. Im scared this is the beginning of the slow "we just grew apart"...ugh.

I want to go on a date. But I decided right.now I need to get over my exDH. Its hard wanting to date someone when for.some reason I still love my ex husband. We're not divorced yet, or even filed. He keeps trying to.win me back.. But I cant   how do I stay strong?

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" I want to go on a date. But I decided right.now I need to get over my exDH. Its hard wanting to date ... [snip!] ... love my ex husband. We're not divorced yet, or even filed. He keeps trying to.win me back.. But I cant   how do I stay strong?"

Remember why you think it can't work & keep reminding yourself that you deserve better.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" I want to go on a date. But I decided right.now I need to get over my exDH. Its hard wanting to date ... [snip!] ... love my ex husband. We're not divorced yet, or even filed. He keeps trying to.win me back.. But I cant   how do I stay strong?"

((hugs)) what's the backstory?

Tomorrow I get a day off, without the kiddo so I am hoping to chat with you ladies soon!! Xoxo.

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" ((hugs)) what's the backstory? "</blockquote>


Him and I werent doing really wrll. We were seperated but still lived together sleep in bed together. Just trying to fix us. It was clear no doing it with other peoole.. And he did. He told me the next day.. And he,regretted it soo bad. But to ne that was cheating.. Bc we had an understanding.

I want in! I'm seperated from my husband and just moved out of state... I'm in dire need of some male time... It's been over a year lol

i hope i go on a date soon

OMG I SmUrfING HATE POF!!! cannot find a guy to save my life, i have to many kids and im not skinny or they just wanna screw... UGH

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" OMG I SmUrfING HATE POF!!! cannot find a guy to save my life, i have to many kids and im not skinny or they just wanna screw... UGH "

you have to weed them out! I met my boyfriend on POF after erasing probably a thousand creepy or crazy or nasty messages. Out of all the messages I got when i was on there for a couple of months, I only replied to like 5 people and met 3 of them, boyfriend included.

Bf and i were on a slippery slope for a while. Hes the type that refuses to say whats bothering him. I could tell bc he would stop texting me. After a "talk", turns out he thought i was talking to other men because I psuedo flirt with my bestfriends brother on facebook.

Im like, "he's 20, like a brother to me and would I really flirt when I KNOW you look at my page?" We've only been together 2 months, but so far I feel hes a good thing. Im not trying to mess that up.

I understand that he was hurt by his ex cheating on him, but im the LAST person he'd have that problem with. Hope he gets that now.


Men.

I feel so lonely tonight   wish I had someone to cuddle up to and kiss... Ugh