re: Official single moms/dating thread!

Quoting Miss Brittany:" Hello ladies! Just wanted to say hi.  "

hello!

For the ladies that asked, no we didn't have sex. He was just waayy too into talking about it. He wanted a nude pic, and I said I would think about it, or send at least a little something the next day. I waited the next day to see if he would text me and try to have an actual conversation. I wasn't just gonna send a pic of my goods if he couldn't even have a conversation with me. He didn't text me all day, so I texted him that night. He sent me like 5 texts, and 2 of them were just smiley faces. I'm sorry, but that is not screaming "I'm interested!" So I didn't send anything, and haven't talked to him since yesterday evening. Which is ok! Time to move on. I don't like wasting time on wondering and worrying.

I've been talking to 2 other guys for a while, just on a friend level so far. One is still deployed in Afghanistan for a couple more days, then he's stationed in a different state for a month. After that he'll be home, and he wants to take me out then. This guy.. is SUCH a babe haha. Blonde, green eyes, amazing body. Just not sure what he's looking for as far as settling down or whatever.

The other guy is a special ed teacher in a junior high, and so far seems really nice. He's very attractive, too. He says he's looking to settle down and start a family. But we'll see.

Sorry for the book!! Just have too much to say!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" For the ladies that asked, no we didn't have sex. He was just waayy too into talking about it. He wanted ... [snip!] ... too. He says he's looking to settle down and start a family. But we'll see. Sorry for the book!! Just have too much to say!"</blockquote>



Good for you! No sexy pics! Especially before he's shown he's trustworthy.

I'm giving up the hunt for awhile, gonna just enjoy my on again off again guy. I enjoy his company, and the sex is amazing. He comes home from vacation Tuesday.

I'm just ready for...more. Oh well

Quoting snglemama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" For the ladies that asked, no we didn't ... [snip!] ... guy. I enjoy his company, and the sex is amazing. He comes home from vacation Tuesday. I'm just ready for...more. Oh well"

Well you know what everyone always says.. as soon as you stop looking, the right guy will come along!   Not sure how true that is haha But until then, at least you have someone to enjoy amazing sex with.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" Well you know what everyone always says.. as soon as you stop looking, the right guy will come along! ... [snip!] ... guy will come along!   Not sure how true that is haha But until then, at least you have someone to enjoy amazing sex with."</blockquote>




I don't believe that. I work full time in a women dominant field, have my kids when I'm not working. If I'm not looking, I'll never find anyone.

Quoting Miss Brittany:" Hello ladies! Just wanted to say hi.  "

how are you/?

Quoting snglemama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Olive ♥:</b>" Well you know what everyone always says.. ... [snip!] ... I work full time in a women dominant field, have my kids when I'm not working. If I'm not looking, I'll never find anyone."

Pretty much what I think! I feel like if I don't try I'll end up being an old cat lady.

Hi Everyone!

So my ex that I was still seeing for the sex got a girlfriend. Of course the whole time we were still seeing each other he was saying he wasn't going to be looking and pretending he wouldn't get one anytime soon. I told him I KNEW he would be in a relationship within a few months. He text me one day after slowly stopping talking to me and said "I have a girlfriend now" They talked for FOUR days and we had sex during that time (obviously I was not aware). I was like alright good luck with that haha. Now he's no longer talking to me even though we were best friends. Oh well.

I'm now talking to another guy. He is in the Air Force, we met on POF so I haven't met him in person yet and he's on leave in WV (his home town) right now for 2 weeks so as long as everything goes smoothly we will be meeting when he gets back. So far, he's great.  

My fiance passed away in april when i was 7 months along with his only son. i figured I would try to date again, but nothing seems to work out it just seems like every guy i talk to wants to talk about sex or coming to there house and blah blah blah..are all guys like this? how would i know when i guy is real.?

I give up. I really do. Anything I've ever tried with another person just leads to heartbreak.

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" I give up. I really do. Anything I've ever tried with another person just leads to heartbreak. "

what happened?

in an hour... gonna get laid! ok.. maybe not. but he'll be home in an hour. Might just stop looking.. and enjoy him for awhile. He's a sweetie, and great sex.

Quoting snglemama:" what happened? "

It's not just any one thing that's happened. I just..smurf. Idk. I don't think I'm attracted. My body looks horrid. I have health issues and a baby. Who the smurf would want anything to do with me? I'm just done. I'm so god damned lonely it hurts but I just can't keep getting my hopes up when I can't even find a guy to text me.

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" It's not just any one thing that's happened. I just..smurf. Idk. I don't think I'm attracted. My body ... [snip!] ... done. I'm so god damned lonely it hurts but I just can't keep getting my hopes up when I can't even find a guy to text me. "

I'm sorry  

Theres a friend of mine who's wanted to date me since the beginning of my pregnancy. He's kind, funny, comes from a good family. Drives his own car, has a job, and is going to school. Before I felt uncomfortable because I was pregnant. Now DS is almost 2 months old. Is it bad to date with a child that young? I brought DS around and he seems to be good with him. And he even went to DS's baptism yesterday! I've never dated a clean & sober good guy before, like ever   So do I or don't I? Should I give it a shot or wait longer?