re: Official single moms/dating thread!

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" omg.... I'm so freaking horny. My on again/off again guy is out of town.. I NEED sex. and... even deprived ... [snip!] ... so ... yea, not sure what that says. I had no intention of sleeping with him... but.. that it wasn't tempting for me... hmm"</blockquote>



Man im horny too lol. Me and EXDH did it like twice a day, everyday. And now im lonely lol. Its been 2 months with the split. And im not ready to.just go bang anyone. Me and EXDH would still sleep together, until we started dating someone. But it was causing me to be emotionally attached and second our divkrce so I had to stop, but damnit I miss his pecker lol.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" omg.... I'm so freaking horny. My on again/off ... [snip!] ... But it was causing me to be emotionally attached and second our divkrce so I had to stop, but damnit I miss his pecker lol."

yea, I kept missing this guy... so we keep getting back together. It's complicated now. but/. we've talked about it... would definitely sleep together until someone new. Hard though... he's more attached than I am.. and I don't want to hurt him

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" omg.... I'm so freaking horny. My on again/off ... [snip!] ... But it was causing me to be emotionally attached and second our divkrce so I had to stop, but damnit I miss his pecker lol."

I haven't had sex since last year. Lol. I'm seriously missing it, too. I'm so sexually frustrated I can't even get myself off.

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" I haven't had sex since last year. Lol. I'm seriously missing it, too. I'm so sexually frustrated I can't even get myself off. "

yea, I couldn't do that. Hell.. I'd certainly have a friend with benefits then...

Quoting snglemama:" yea, I couldn't do that. Hell.. I'd certainly have a friend with benefits then..."

It's hard when you're single, but I don't need to tell you that. Also, I've had a lot of health issues this year. I'd love to have a FWB, but I just haven't found one.

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" It's hard when you're single, but I don't need to tell you that. Also, I've had a lot of health issues this year. I'd love to have a FWB, but I just haven't found one."

yea, it is hard.

I remember right after my divorce being shocked how hard it was to just get laid lol.

Quoting snglemama:" yea, it is hard. I remember right after my divorce being shocked how hard it was to just get laid lol."

All of my guy friends are like all you have to do is go into a bar, say "Who wants to smurf me?" and that's it! and I'm like "NO! It doesn't work that way!"

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:</b>" I haven't had sex since last year. Lol. I'm seriously missing it, too. I'm so sexually frustrated I can't even get myself off. "</blockquote>


Ive never been able to get myself off   its sucks. Only my EXDH knkws what to do. Oh well I will just be sexualy frustrated with you.   lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:</b>" All of my guy friends are like all you have to do is go into a bar, say "Who wants to smurf me?" and that's it! and I'm like "NO! It doesn't work that way!""</blockquote>




Right! I feel awkward going into a bar by myself, and don't have many girlfriends to go out with.


I can definitely get myself off... But that gets old...

Quoting snglemama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:</b>" All of my guy friends are like all you ... [snip!] ... into a bar by myself, and don't have many girlfriends to go out with. I can definitely get myself off... But that gets old..."

I think that's my problem. I'm just burnt out on it. I don't care anymore.

ok- should I just ask him if he's interested? I'm bad at dating.. I HATE the wondering, games etc. It's not me. I'm blunt, to the point.

he hasn't blown me off... but doesn't initiate contact either. I texted him good morning.. he responded "morning : ) "


ok... so, he responded, and a smiley. but.. wtf? nothing else. he hasn't asked if he can see me again... hasn't engaged in conversation at all! we talked fine for the most part (a few pauses, but not awkward really)... but he doesn't text, message or anything. if he does message.. it's through words with friends...???

Quoting snglemama:" ok- should I just ask him if he's interested? I'm bad at dating.. I HATE the wondering, games etc. It's ... [snip!] ... but not awkward really)... but he doesn't text, message or anything. if he does message.. it's through words with friends...???"

He seems.. kinda shy/awkward? How's conversation when you're on a date with him?

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" ok- should I just ask him if he's interested? I'm bad at dating.. I HATE the wondering, games etc. It's ... [snip!] ... but not awkward really)... but he doesn't text, message or anything. if he does message.. it's through words with friends...???"</blockquote>




Maybe the spark is not there for him?


I had a guy like this. He would text me if I texted him but meet seemed to interested. Um. So I vote just move on. But I hate wasting time on guys that are not interested.

Like you- I prefer being just told straight up that its not working for them. I hate my time being wasted.

Hello ladies! Just wanted to say hi.  

Quoting .tay.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" ok- should I just ask him if he's interested? ... [snip!] ... not interested. Like you- I prefer being just told straight up that its not working for them. I hate my time being wasted."

yea.. moving on. Irritated though.... look up the 4 agreements if you have time... it's something I try to live by. One of the things I was interested abotu him.... is so does he. But.. apparently not. Being up front, no assumptions, and asking what you need to know... all part of it.

anyway... I texted this morning.. after he said morning. I said he was difficult to read... that he hasn't blown me off but I never could tell if he actually wanted me texting him. Yea.. that was 12 hours ago... on a saturday. No response.

it's ok... I wasn't really sure if I was into him either. Maybe he felt as much (of a non spark?) as I did. I'd just rather know.