My horrific story.
posted 1st Nov
I found out I was pregnant with my first child in March of 2012. My fiance and I were extremely excited. In mid July, we found out we were having a baby girl. We agreed upon the name of Zoey Madelynn Foux.
My pregnancy was extremely easy, I didn't have any problems what-so-over. I had a standard 2 week check up on October 17th, 2012 at 10:15am. We went in, and I was signing the papers for my hospital visit for when I would go into labor. The doctor finally came in, and I had told her that I hadn't felt Zoey kick or punch me in a day or two, but it hadn't concerned me because she LOVED being lazy. Every few weeks or so, i'd have a day or two where she just didn't do anything. So I thought nothing of this..
The doctor decided to do a sonogram on me, where she couldn't hear the heartbeat. This didn't shock me because it was always really hard to hear my daughter's heartbeat through that. She had decided to give me an ultra sound where I heard the horrific news.
They told me that she her heart wasn't beating anymore..
I was a day away from being 33 weeks pregnant. My due date with her was December 7th.
I was in too much shock to even comprehend a single word anyone was saying to me.
I ended up being admitted to my local hospital shortly after that, where they had induced me. 15 hours of labor, and 15 minutes of pushing, my beautiful daughter entered the world in a life-less form.
We had found out the cause of death was the chord being wrapped around her neck.
It has been two weeks today that my daughter has passed away, and I have been flowing through the typical grievance feelings.
I still can't handle this properly though, and even though I am seeking help I am unsure of how this will work.
I just really miss my daughter...
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I'm so, so sorry for your loss
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I'm so sorry I can't even imagine
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry for your loss mama.
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Wow... I am so sorry
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I am so, so sorry for your loss..that is just heartbreaking.
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<blockquote><b>Quoting SuperShlee:</b>" I found out I was pregnant with my first child in March of 2012. My fiance and I were extremely excited. ... [snip!] ... this properly though, and even though I am seeking help I am unsure of how this will work. I just really miss my daughter..."</blockquote>
I'm just speechless, I cried as I read your story, I have no idea how I would cope with that..
Don't keep it bottled up, talk to someone it might help even just a little, I'm so sorry :,(
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PM me if you need to.
I lost my daughter August 21st 2010 I was 20 weeks and 5 days.
I havae been there and if you have ANY questions feel free to ask.
This is the worse pain to ever go through... I am so sorry you had to experience this <3
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i could not imagine this happening. i'm so sorry for your loss. just be strong mama. you can make it through this!
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I am so sorry for your loss. I haven't been through this but if you ever need someone to talk to I am always here.
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So sorry for you lost I know how you must feel I recently lost my daughter September 23 still feel like it was just yesterday I was 31 weeks pm me if you have any questions just want to vent/talk anything I'm available
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I cannot imagine, hon. My sincerest condolences.
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I am very sorry for your loss! <3
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Im sorry for your loss.
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