re: How Do You Handle This The Right Way?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥GarciaMommy:</b>" Why do you keep going back to the fact that I'm trying to control him or that I'm his mother or something?? "</blockquote>




Because you keep bringing up consequences like you're going to punish him for his actions. Just talk to your husband, express yourself and move on. I don't see why there needs to be consequences for something like this.

I didn't read all of the comments so apologies if this has already been said...

You say right at the beginning he was pretty drunk when he decided to send out invites to everyone on his FB friends list to his Mothers house?? Well then I don't see why you should apologise or that you have overstepped any boundaries. He quite clearly was not in the right state of mind and you even say he's not used to being drunk? He would probably be more annoyed waking up to find he had organised this party he remembers nothing about and you hadn't been the caring with interfering and clearing up his drunken mess for him lol

It's like if my Husband decided to go online while highly intoxicated and do some random crazy smurf like that he would expect me to clear up the situation for him  

Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥GarciaMommy:</b>" Why do you keep going back to the ... [snip!] ... talk to your husband, express yourself and move on. I don't see why there needs to be consequences for something like this."

I don't think you understand where I'm coming from. So it's okay. Thank you for taking the time to be sarcastic and try to give me advice. Thumbs up.

I don't really think any realishionship where someone wants to control someone else is a good thing. You are totally in the wrong, and I think it will backfire. Being pregnant doesn't mean your SO has to give up his social life, and I would never except my DH to run everything he does by me. You are trying to control him and that's wrong.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I don't really think any realishionship where someone wants to control someone else is a good thing. ... [snip!] ... social life, and I would never except my DH to run everything he does by me. You are trying to control him and that's wrong."

Oh shut up. lol I'm not trying to control him. And yes, being in a marriage and being this far along in my pregnancy, out of respect for me he should run this past me. This isn't just some little thing either like a trip to the grocery store, this is a big thing. lol

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I don't really think any realishionship where someone wants to control someone else is a good thing. ... [snip!] ... social life, and I would never except my DH to run everything he does by me. You are trying to control him and that's wrong."

Secondly, I NEVER said he had to give up his social life while I was pregnant. lol

Quoting xTJ:" I didn't read all of the comments so apologies if this has already been said... You say right at the ... [snip!] ... online while highly intoxicated and do some random crazy smurf like that he would expect me to clear up the situation for him  "

This is actually how he felt. He was surprised I did it but he said he was happy I did because it took the work out of it for him. smh. Smurfing men. I swear.

I would let him talk. (if he's a talker) he may be hurt, you could have lost his trust, etc. Apologize. Yes what he did was wrong but so were you.