Quoting Back to Noob Status:" My brother and I love watching this show, and it amazes me how some brides-to-be act on there. I get ... [snip!] ... bride? If you watch TLC, it seems as though weddings put more emphasis on the bride (and dress) than the special engagement."
I was not. At all. Weddings are pointless to me.
I think the whole "all about the bride" crap is stupid honestly. It's about you deciding to marry someone. That's between you and that person. Why then is it everyone else celebrating it? Why does everyone else need to do all this because YOU decided to marry someone?
I think it's very silly honestly, and I think it sets people up horribly. So many women are so concerned with the wedding taht they give little thought to the marriage. I'd be happy as could be if weddings were basically done away with and people just got married, just the two of them, all the time.