re: If you had back labor

I did with two, my 3rd was emergancy c-section.

The only thing that helped me was giving birth on my hands and knees, worked like a charm. lol It was much easier to push as well.

Quoting Just Ames:" OK, you just had your baby. Forget about it girl. When you look at your baby, just look at her...not ... [snip!] ... have to be on your mind anymore. The important thing is you got through it and you and your baby are here and healthy   "

Oh, I'm not at all. I couldn't be more happy that she is here, regardless of how she came. The way she was born fits her personality perfectly, dramatic.  

Nope!
My second labor/ delivery was a breeze. My first sounds just like your experience. I was terrified through my whole 2nd pregnancy and was crying out of fear when labor first came on.

Quoting nutmeg.:" Nope! My second labor/ delivery was a breeze. My first sounds just like your experience. I was terrified through my whole 2nd pregnancy and was crying out of fear when labor first came on."

well it's nice to hear that it wasn't so bad the second time around! I do want more babies in the future and I feel like I would be terrified the whole time of that happening.

Quoting Mel152009:" well it's nice to hear that it wasn't so bad the second time around! I do want more babies in the future and I feel like I would be terrified the whole time of that happening."

Hubby and I are not having more kids but after my last delivery/ recovery experience, I know I wouldn't spend the next pregnancy worrying about it, if I were to have another.