Quoting I can see you:" I think .. regardless of him being right or wrong... not allowing him to say it.... technically.. not ... [snip!] ... backup if they are going to celebrate a holiday and there are kids not participating. Makinghim leave school is not acceptable"That's what I thought at first, but the school has a load of laws written out because most of the children attending have an IEP. One of which is something along the line sof... a child who is deliberately upsetting or harassing another child can be dismissed from classroom activities, unless the behavior is noted in the child's IEP. They pulled that part of school agreement. I just don't agree he was being deliberate... he was told what to say.
Quoting Misty Walls:" If she trained him to say that then she should have expected him to get sent home. Is the non halloween a religious thing??"It's not for her, but it is for her husband. And they believe in the "men over women" deal, so she does what he says.
Quoting Buzz and Almond Joys momm:" First I am pretty sure the schools have to ( especially with IEP) accommodate to each child's situation. ... [snip!] ... needs preschool like this one, they always just inform parents of the situation after class never call to take the child home)"
Quoting OmegaDucks!:" She's a selfish mother and she sounds ridiculous. I assume your child is celebrating Halloween, so does ... [snip!] ... him home like any sensible mother would do. Instead she set her child up for a horrible day and hurt a bunch of other children."
Quoting Destinite:" I agree. There seems to always be 1 drama starter. She was sent a letter and she chose to ignore it. ... [snip!] ... expense. I'd be pissed about her kid using curse words around mine. Why should everyone else suffer b/c one person is looney?"