at the top next to baby gaga logo thingy there is four categories. members, pregnancy, parenting, and everything else. in the pregnancy, parenting, and everything there is all kinds of different ones to go in. say if you want to talk about a miscarriage, go to pregnancy and a few down there is one that says suffering and loss. you open it and there is alot of topics or you can post your own. i tend to stick in the everything else area i go to the free for all categorie most of the time.