re: Being pregnant at 17 is kinda lonely :/

I was pregnant at 16 and then again at 17. My experience was way different than yours. I had more friends when I was pregnant and even more after I had my adorable baby   things are lonely now though and my kids are 4 and 5 and I'm 22.

Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" Sometimes pregnancy sucks no matter what age."

I agree!!!

I was pregnant at 23 and it was very smurffy.

Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" Sometimes pregnancy sucks no matter what age."

 

Quoting skwey:" I was pregnant at 16 and then again at 17. My experience was way different than yours. I had more friends ... [snip!] ... I was pregnant and even more after I had my adorable baby   things are lonely now though and my kids are 4 and 5 and I'm 22."

god damn, you didn't learn the first time?

Try to work on getting your education and focus the future. Are you going to offer it for adoption or keep it?

You're one friend an family.is all you need.if they stoped being your friend because your having a baby they were never your friend at all! An you can't care what people think or how they look at you i had my son at 14 an it was the best decision i ever made!!

I'm 17 as well. Feel free to PM me if you need to OP.

That shows you who was your real friends. Dont be so hard on yoursrlf you have your bf and family from both sides. You dont need hypocrite people around you.

My pregnancy was lonely, I was 22. DH is military and we moved to a new state, so I didn't know a single person! At least you've got your families.

Most women lose a lot of their friends during or after pregnancy especially if their friends don't have kids you’re just at a different stage of life than them and they can't understand what you are going through. I would suggest looking for a teen mom support group although they are new people you would have something in common with them and maybe fined a few new friends that are where you are at right now.

Smurf changes when you get knocked up, especially if you're young.

Quoting MommaNoodle:" well, now you know who your real friends are-- not those people. i don't have much advice on being a ... [snip!] ... that if people are walking away from you and not wanting to be your friend, then you don't need them anyway. good luck to you!"

Ditto. And theres no rule book that says teen moms have to be miserable because they got pregnant too soon. Pregnancy can be enjoyed or hated at any age, by people with friends and family or without. Dont let all the ff's get to you, theyll all have kids one day and say wow i can hardly do this now, i cant believe you did it then. Be a great mom and shove it in their faces.  

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" god damn, you didn't learn the first time?"

I didn't post this for you sit here and harass people.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" god damn, you didn't learn the first time?"</blockquote>



I got married when I was 16. Dumbest decision ever! But I did gain two amazing people out of it. We were financially stable and happy together.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" god damn, you didn't learn the first time?"

LMAO! I just spewed water all over my computer.