re: If your SO watches porn

For me, no. Never would it bother me. What I don't understand is how it bothers other people. =/ But that is just me. Right now I probably watch it more than him. lol I'm 9 months, sex is very uncomfortable but I'm so horny. =**( But we watch it together and do what they do... or just to get one of us in the mood. lmao.

Quoting ♥GarciaMommy:" For me, no. Never would it bother me. What I don't understand is how it bothers other people. =/ But ... [snip!] ... but I'm so horny. =**( But we watch it together and do what they do... or just to get one of us in the mood. lmao."

Some people believe it's a form of cheating? Like maybe they feel their SO is lusting after the naked men and women, and maybe they want their SO's eyes on them and ONLY them? Or maybe someone is insecure about how they look? /shrug
Many reasons.

My husband and I don't watch porn for religious reasons there are some non religious reasons too though.
If I was with a man who didn't share this view and did watch it I don't know if I could be with him. If he was willing to TRY and stop the habit I would stay and help him and see if he could join a mens group at church to help him with this habit.
(they have support groups at church that help men and women who have temptations to watch porn)

Quoting [24 days]:" Some people believe it's a form of cheating? Like maybe they feel their SO is lusting after the naked ... [snip!] ... maybe they want their SO's eyes on them and ONLY them? Or maybe someone is insecure about how they look? /shrug Many reasons.

I'm not judging anyone that doesn't like it or think that is wrong.

But your right, I guess there is a lot of reasons.

Dh watches it, masturbates to it, etc. As do I. I don't really care. And I can't really understand why people would consider it cheating, but that's just me. I was just curious.  

I don't think dh watches it, the history on our computer never has porn on it and his phone doesn't connect to a browser because he has a crappy little phone.
We also don't watch it for religious and moral reasons. We just feel that our eyes are only meant for each other.

SO and I used to watch porn when I was OK with it - I then fell pregnant and saw me and SO being very serious and there for didn't want him to watch it anymore. He found it difficult to stop and ended up hiding it from me. He came to me and said he had an addiction - almost lost me over it as I couldn't cope with the lies. He is now completely over his addiction as he researched into pornography and realized that it was just smurf infecting his mind (his words) and he has a new found respect for women and has much better things to do with his life. We are also having a daughter together so I think that helped.
From talking seriously with SO it has certainly made me feel like porn gives and unrealistic and deluded perception of women, sex and relationships and can be damaging. This is only my opinion - If you're cool with it then fair enough.

Quoting Samurai ♥:" I watch porn all the time. And so does DH. We rarely watch it together. We have totally different styles of what we like. "

I don't have a problem with it nor does he. We don't watch it together because we have different tastes.

Yeah, it's one of our things to do together. Lol.
Don't bother me.

We spend about 5 hours a week together due to work commitments so if he didn't watch porn I would be confused.
Also I write erotica so my mind is like a non-stop porno ... it would kind of be hypocritical for me to get mad.

However if the smurf gets another virus on my computer because of his yummy mummy obsession I'll kill him

I love porn and I miss it. I wish husband liked it.

Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" We spend about 5 hours a week together due to work commitments so if he didn't watch porn I would be ... [snip!] ... for me to get mad. However if the smurf gets another virus on my computer because of his yummy mummy obsession I'll kill him"

LOL! One of the main reasons why my husband has his own laptop.

Quoting Monsieur Tastybutt:" LOL! One of the main reasons why my husband has his own laptop. "

The worst thing is we both work in IT so he know how to screen for bad sites ... yet still everytime I open the computer I have AVG going nuts at me

Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" The worst thing is we both work in IT so he know how to screen for bad sites ... yet still everytime I open the computer I have AVG going nuts at me"

He knows what to do as well, but he does the wrong thing anyway.