Quoting Brianna G :" <blockquote><b>Quoting veggie86:</b>" Wow, his bubble really will pop when the baby ... [snip!] ... he like throws it in my face. He claims he loves her. I'm just mind blown with everything. I guess in time I will be better."
hey lady. i'm just going to give you some advice okay?
you don't need a man to raise your baby.
i was really depressed for a long time being a single mom. bc i thought i deserved to have help with OUR child. but what i came to realize, was things happen a certain way for a reason. i wouldn't be with my DH if i hadn't of been separated from BD. and i would rather BD be in my kids life all the time, or not at all. and he chose not at all.. it isn't hurting anyone but himself. bc one day he'll realize what he did was wrong and want to make it better. and by then , my kids wont like their real dad.
so just take it a day at a time. and remember you DO NOT NEED HIM..
but def take his ass to court for CS..
and i know how hard it is emotionally. but it DOES get better. in time. you wont be A-Okay instantly. you just have to give it time. i promise