<blockquote><b>Quoting Polynesian Barbie:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs cree:</b>" He sounds like a total dick! Where is your family? ... [snip!] ... doesn't care for him. So now I really feel like an outcast because now we're stuck together for life. I just feel like smurf."</blockquote>
You are NOT stuck with him for life. You have to know him and be civil with him if he's going to be involved with your child, but you don't have to be a couple to coparent.