Coping.

The wording I used previously was obviously a huge fail. I'm looking for any words of encouragement, advice, and so forth. I have went through a rape, and a miscarriage. I have no idea how to cope. I'm not sure how to make myself feel better. I have this lost feeling I cannot seem to shake.

Quoting amnda:" Hi. I have just decided to sign up for an account, so I'm somewhat new. I was attacked by a random man as I was walking throughout my neighborhood over 3 months ago. I ended up pregnant from this ordeal. I had finally decided to give the baby up for adoption.. I lost the baby this past Saturday. I can't seem to shake the feeling. I feel like I messed up and did something wrong. I was only six weeks and one day exactly. I feel so empty, and lost. My so called friends were not at all supportive of my decision. I guess you can say that is why I seek comfort from random strangers. I can rest at night knowing another girl will not be attacked by the man. If you have any words of encouragement, ways to cope. I would gladly appreciate them. Thanks.

Your dates don't add up. If you were attacked over 3 months ago, being only 6 weeks pregnant wouldn't make the baby his?

Quoting Kate Walsh ♥:" Your dates don't add up. If you were attacked over 3 months ago, being only 6 weeks pregnant wouldn't make the baby his?"

I said over three months ago. That's not saying three months ago. Lol.

Quoting amnda:" I said over three months ago. That's not saying three months ago. Lol."

Obviously I'm missing something. If you were attacked 'over three months ago' that would make you over 12 weeks pregnant or round abouts.. Not only 6 weeks.

Quoting Kate Walsh ♥:" Obviously I'm missing something. If you were attacked 'over three months ago' that would make you over 12 weeks pregnant or round abouts.. Not only 6 weeks."

Yeah, you're right. I guess I was just looking for someone else to blame instead of me and my stupidity. If that makes any sense?

I'm so lost on this whole post

Like the other chick said, your dates are way off. The baby wasn't your rapists if this happened well over 3 months ago.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" I'm so lost on this whole post"</blockquote>




This!

Yall can be so heartless sometime. Who the smurf cares if she worded it wrong or whatever. She has been though some tough times and is just looking for kind words. Jeeze.

No, she stated she ended up pregnant from the ordeal leading everyone to believe she ended up pregnant from the rape. I don't wish rape or miscarriage on anybody but how are you to believe anything she says if its only half true ( and who's going to even believe that now?... )

She then inboxed me.


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posted 30th Oct
I realize I just made myself look like a complete idiot. Could you please remove the quotes? I'm going to reword my post.. Instead of saying I was pregnant from the ordeal.. Say I need to cope with a rape, and a miscarriage? Thanks.

Wow...

Who cares if she worded it wrong or whatever? Maybe she thought it was the rapist's until after she posted and was corrected.

That's still 2 horrible things to go through, even if they're not related.