needing to vent

to start of im a single mom to two beautiful boys who are age 20 months and almost 2 months old i love them more than anything. I was engaged to their father and when i was 6 months pregnant with my lo he got fired from his job and decided he didnt want to work anymore so he just sat around the house all day doing nothing and we were about to be evicted from our house so i took my toddler and left him and moved in with my mom and ever since than he thinks its not his responsibilty anymore to take care of the kids. He has only seen my 2 month old a handful of times and has only taken him once overnight. he barely sees my toddler anymore either and when he does he comes for an hour and than leaves and the only thing he does for them is buy them diapers every now and than. I am so exhausted doing it all myself he doesnt help me at all and he has no idea what i go through day by day. I asked him if he would take the boys the other night so i could get a little bit of sleep and be able to clean the house and he said he was to tired but than went out with his friends that night. I am just so tired of his bullsmurf and him not taking responsibilty of his kids. I didnt make this kids on my own so i sure as hell shouldnt have to take care of them on my own.

take him to court for child support and custody agreements and move on. they will order him to get a job. they may even enter a support order based off of what his potential to make is! good luck

File for child support.

He is not legally required to financially support the children until there is a child support order in place.

Quoting Leash25:" take him to court for child support and custody agreements and move on. they will order him to get a job. they may even enter a support order based off of what his potential to make is! good luck"

yea ive already started the whole child support process its just taking forever im just tired of his bullsmurf and my toddler getting hurt everytime he leaves it breaks my heart