Quoting skwey:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Barnett Babies:</b>" You, would think! The sad thing The sad ... [snip!] ... him, they refer to him by his first name and not dad because he "doesn't take care of them" (in my 4 and 5 year olds words)."
Fight for supervised visitation! I have sadly been there done this and i agree with you completely. He stopped paying support, I stopped letting him see the kids I refused his bad habits, his abusive ways, etc. So sad yet it is tough getting supervised visits you have to show prove of all allegations you make when you fight! It for our kids and well worth it!