Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:" I went through this exact same thing. My sister called me to tell be she was pregnant with my nephew ... [snip!] ... my suffering. So talk to these people if the love you they will understand and they will help you deal with your feelings."Oh wow, that sounds so hard. Ya i know what u mean..my bf's sis asked my bf to go w her to see what she was having n he said no cuz it would be too hard. His sis understood but his mom got a lil upset. It just seems like lately things been so hard for us. As soon as we lost the baby seems like everyone we know is prego, n yes like u I would be the same way, having all those ?s. I am there for my sis, since it's her 1st but man is it hard We wanted this baby so bad. But i get what ur saying n I am the same way but like u said, doing that can effect things. My family gets it n understands. Man its so hard. I am sorry for ur lost.
Quoting LatinaMamma3:" Oh wow, that sounds so hard. Ya i know what u mean..my bf's sis asked my bf to go w her to see what she ... [snip!] ... way but like u said, doing that can effect things. My family gets it n understands. Man its so hard. I am sorry for ur lost."
Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:" I avioded having that convo with my sister because I didnt want to upset her but that just back fired ... [snip!] ... heart just because he reminds me of my daughter but to this day I cant go see him without coming home crying over my daughter."
Oh wow that sounds like such a hard situation and I am sorry you had to go through a hard time. I am glad though that things did work out eventually, But I get where ur coming from. Everytime I hung w my sis i get all in this depressed mood n just like wanting to go home after awhile. My BF can tell it effects me and will jut start comforting me n making me foget bout it, so I don't get too down. I can tell it effects him to but he tries not to show it. I really hope I can handle all these babies that are soon to come, but I fear I wont be able to, n start to break down, hurts even more that my kids talk bout their lil "sis" cuz they dont understand death n that she's not coming. I thank u for giving me advice n sharing ur story, I am still sorry u went all through that. U are a strong women.