Quoting Camden's Mommy!!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Evelynns Mama!:</b>" I would just tell your SO you need some ... [snip!] ... always goes good... But like I said before I don't wanna hurt my SO... I'm scared to say lets take a break and then lose him..."
Ughhh, I don't know.
If he loves you, i'd say he'd understand. But, that's not reality nowadays. Just tell him you're confused...
This happened to me, with my SO before I was pregnant but kind of in a backwards way..
I was with my SO for a year or so and we broke up because i was confused and thought I still cared for my ex ( before my SO *M*) Well, we broke up I told him I just had to figure out what was going on and what i needed to do, i was honest with him... And went out with M a few times, and realized that wasn't what I needed. Tried to get back with him, he ignored me and ignored me, it hurt... but eventually he came back to me and I got pregnant.
I'm going to be honest, and say I still do care for my ex in some ways, and I will never understand why. But I always run back to my SO, it's odd. We fight a lot, but we love each other a lot. Our relationship is odd. He tries to control me, maybe that's why i still think about my ex because he NEVER did that. But all in all, i'm happy with my decision and wouldn't change it. I love that my SO is always here for my little girl...
You just have to figure out what YOU want, and what completes YOU. I now, couldn't imagine NOT being with my SO because of our child. She makes him light up, makes him a new person. And he does the same to her.