i must rant

so i just found out my BD is back with his ex wife cause they have son together. What I am thinking is about what about us is the fact that my daughter lacks a penis means she's not worthy of him. What about the four long years I put into this relationship. I feel like I'm in a lifetime movie WTF seriously we planned this baby and apperantly she's not what you wanted. Whatever I dont needyou.

sum ppl just suck ...... ! and i deff understand ... but u know atleast she has one good parent and if he can not stand up and be a man and take care of his children sumday she will grow up and know that he is not a father!
i hope all works out and i know its nice to rant sumtimes but im sure u and ur baby will be fine ... u have each other and if he cant see what a great thing he has then he is not a man and u both dont need him ! good luck  

it just pisses me he's so good to his son and we chopped liver

my friend had that happen to her...she was with a guy for a few years(he had a child previously before from another relationship) and they planned the pregnancy and then the guy went back to his ex and wanted nothing to do with the baby...she told me that she'd never have a baby intentionally with a man ever again unless they were married and then like 8 months after the first was born she went out and did it again...that one was on her because she was only with the guy for a few months and he didn't know what she was doing(trying to get pregnant)...I no longer talk to her anymore..

You are right you don't need him. Anyone who is that selfish is no one worth having in your lives anyways. I know it still sucks majorly though.

can see how that can make u mad! my dad was the same when i was born he wanted nothing to do with me cause i was a girl pretty much ... altho i love and see my dad it took along time for me .. i am deff way closer to my mother ! so in the end if he wants to be a douche bag then he will be the one to miss out !