Need advice!

I have a question for all the moms and dads out there . If your ex called said you child was sick or hurt or just wanted you really bad would you go ? my ex refuses to come anytime our daughter needs him because its not his "parenting time" so he doesnt have to be there at all. To me that is horrible you cannot turn off being a parent, if your child needs you, you should be there for them. What are your thoughts about it? Im at a loss at what to do. I feel horrible for her )= To top it all off im pregnant with our second and once again is never there for anything not one thing.

Only person who can make the best call on that is you.
My son's father is like that so I cut his butt off all together. In my opinion , you are all in or all out..If I can't be a "sometimes parent" then he can't either...-just my opinion.

Oh trust me i want to do that soooooo badly but the courts say otherwise. He still has his time with her but thats all . Im keeping record now of when it happens.

I'd be there for my kids regardless of what I'm doing or where I'm at. You're a parent full time once you have children not just when it's convenient for you. He is defiantly in the wrong.

That is awful. I 100% agree with you that he should be there for the children when they ask or clearly need it. I do not understand how some people can turn off like that.  
Maybe he is trying to hurt you? Or just doesn't want to be around you and start arguing. Those are the only reasons I can think of. Not making excuses for him, just trying to figure an angle for your daughter to see her daddy when she wants to.
Did the break-up go bad?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❤ ʘlive Oyl:</b>" That is awful. I 100% agree with you that he should be there for the children when they ask or clearly ... [snip!] ... excuses for him, just trying to figure an angle for your daughter to see her daddy when she wants to. Did the break-up go bad?"</blockquote>




Yea he started a fight with me ine day and just left and never came back and ever sice than hes been going down hill from thia amazing dad to someone whos only there when told to be there. Than finding out were due again in April was a shock and he just shut himself off .He only.refers to having one child. I just feel bad for my girls because they always want their dad but hes to.busy with his broads.or friends to even care to be there. There been a few times ive been in the hospital with my youngest and hes refused to come because it wasnt his parenting time and he was too tired . The other time he made me cry infront of everyone and caused a huge sence about being there....

Quoting Emma and Charlette Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ❤ ʘlive Oyl:</b>" That is awful. I 100% agree with ... [snip!] ... time and he was too tired . The other time he made me cry infront of everyone and caused a huge sence about being there...."

That totally sucks. Would he be opposed to do some type of relationship counseling? So you two can formally lay out bounderies and stuff? I just feel for your kiddos. I'd be pissed and document everything. Just in case things get uglier. Hang in there. I hope he comes around.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❤ ʘlive Oyl:</b>" That totally sucks. Would he be opposed to do some type of relationship counseling? So you two can formally ... [snip!] ... for your kiddos. I'd be pissed and document everything. Just in case things get uglier. Hang in there. I hope he comes around."</blockquote>




Oh ive tried to suggest everything and anything . He refuses to.do anything. I feel so bad for my girls makes me feel like im failing as their mom causr im suppose to protect them but i cant. I have been documenting everything. This is tame to what it has been with him hes pulled some horrible stuff.