re: I don't know what to do or think about this please help

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sugartits:</b>" well now is the perfect time to take her in you said her parts look different and drs know that kids ... [snip!] ... then when shes older shes going to hate you for it especially if she's already told you and you did nothing but make up excuses"</blockquote>




This

Quoting NevviesMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of 4  :</b>" That is not saying I'm not protecting ... [snip!] ... only for those innocent babies of yours. Keep making up excuses of why you "can't" help them if it helps you sleep at night."

I'm not making up excuses I said I can't take her to her doctor because I don't have her during the week, I can take her to the hospital

Look OP I'm not one to be rude but you have been told multiple times to take your daughter to the ER to get checked, she is in your care so get your ass off BG and take that child in! PROTECT YOUR CHILD.

Quoting Mother of 4  :" I'm not making up excuses the only thing I can think of is that she changed her story because she is ... [snip!] ... said it was a boy and then said no one is touching me. Could it be because he was there and she is scared of what he may do?"

idk what to tell you other then get her checked at the er, if shes lying they'll know if shes not they'll know just go get her checked, you asked for advice we're all giving it to you take it or leave it the only ones who get hurt are your kids

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of 4  :</b>" I'm not making up excuses I said I can't take her to her doctor because I don't have her during the week, I can take her to the hospital"</blockquote>




Then do your daughter a favor and smurfing DO IT!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of 4  :</b>" I'm not making up excuses the only thing I can think of is that she changed her story because she is ... [snip!] ... said it was a boy and then said no one is touching me. Could it be because he was there and she is scared of what he may do?"</blockquote>


It does not matter that she is changing her story. Take her to the ER now. Please. Help this little girl from having any pain in the future. She does not need to go to her regular pediatrician for this. She needs help and she needs it now. I mean right now. The ER will take a look, and contact child services. She will get the counseling she needs, and there will be an investigation, and the problem will be solved.

Quoting Sugartits:" idk what to tell you other then get her checked at the er, if shes lying they'll know if shes not they'll ... [snip!] ... get her checked, you asked for advice we're all giving it to you take it or leave it the only ones who get hurt are your kids"

I know I'm going to go I just needed to calm down this is hard to go through I'm scared cause I don't want her to go through what I went through

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of 4  :</b>" I know I'm going to go I just needed to calm down this is hard to go through I'm scared cause I don't want her to go through what I went through"</blockquote>




Were you molested? If you knew the pain from personal experience why would you even push her aside?

i'm praying that shes not but its better to get it checked now, my mother was abused and she hasnt been right since, stop it now while you have the chance

I really hope for the best, hope your baby girl is ok!

Please if you suspect abuse take your daughter to the hospital NOW! she needs to get checked out!