Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" i understand that im growing up and i dont really want to go to partys and things like tht. im trying ... [snip!] ... i didnt expect to get pregnant so young and i dint expect to be a single mom but i tought i would be happier with my life... "
That's the thing..........Pregnancy is NEVER how it is expected. It's not something you can predict.
If the trigger with your family is that you do things that you normally do because you're on your own, just be a little more careful. Don't step on anyones toes, don't have an attitude, do your part of keeping up the house, etc. Don't let pregnancy become a handicap to you.
You're pregnant, but you can still do everything you could before. Find new ways to enjoy life! Maybe join a local "mommy to mommy" group on Facebook and make some new friends? Find something that makes YOU happy and something you enjoy! Maybe pick up some part-time work? Don't wait for someone else to make you happy, do it yourself while you still can.
My life is nothing like what I wanted it to be when I got pregnant. My husband and I are struggling financially and it feels like we'll never be back on our feet, I've had a rough pregnancy with my health, etc......But.....I still find things that make me happy. Whether it be watching a funny video on the internet.....Cooking and eating a sit down dinner with my husband.....watching a movie I love....Enjoy little things, let big things take care of themselves.