Quoting Adrienne +1:" If its about my child being raised without a father figure I just say "Better no example then a bad one." ... [snip!] ... but without being rude. Although Im with someone now, but when my my daughter was a newborn I'd get comments here and there."
I ended it with, "if that's the best you can do, bye." To which she responded something like, "I just feel bad for you, I could do much worse."
And soooo I said, "If you cared or felt bad for me, you wouldn't have spent the past hour trying to make me feel so bad." And that was the end of it... tonight. It's been happening more and more, though. I just disengage and respond not meanly. I'm just SO sick of it.