Okay, so some of you may know the story of BD, well he is currently in jail & I told Alyssa last night that he was going to be away for a while & she will see him soon.

Do you think it would a good idea, for Alyssa to draw him some Halloween pictures & I can mailthem to him ?

Yeah I don't see why not. What is the harm in that?

Might sound selfish, but IMO it would depend on what he's in for. Otherwise, I'd let her draw them, but hang them around the house or whatever.

Why not?

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Quoting tinana +2:" Might sound selfish, but IMO it would depend on what he's in for. Otherwise, I'd let her draw them, but hang them around the house or whatever. "

stealing  

Quoting Zombie_Girls *:" stealing  "

lol. What did he steal?

If it had been like, molestation or something, I'd never allow it. If he was stealing (stupidly or not) to try to help us out, if we were that rock bottom, I'd probably allow it.

Quoting tinana +2:" lol. What did he steal? If it had been like, molestation or something, I'd never allow it. If he ... [snip!] ... never allow it. If he was stealing (stupidly or not) to try to help us out, if we were that rock bottom, I'd probably allow it."

he stole $2000 worth of hand bags 

& no, it was not to help us

Quoting Zombie_Girls *:" he stole $2000 worth of hand bags  & no, it was not to help us"

Holy sh**. When is he expected to be released??

I think that might be too much for a 3yr old to grasp, it might just confuse her.

I wouldn't, but I might be biased because I don't agree anybody who is in jail (& guilty) is a person deserving of mine or my child's attention. & Personally, I wouldn't want my child having or knowing any part in that kind of lifestyle.

Quoting tinana +2:" Holy sh**. When is he expected to be released??"

yea...he's crazy !

& idk, he's been in since Sept 21st ( Alyssa's bday )
& his next court date is not until Dec 19th