Quoting mama3trish:" I just read something about this in a parenting magazine at the dentists office,lol. Kids need time to ... [snip!] ... "Ask Trish, her kids tell her everything" who pukes, who got a red card (sent to the office) and what the teacher was wearing."
This is interesting!
It does bring up a good point though, if I ask DD a specific question - like what did MaFlor (her grandmother) packed her for lunch she will tell me exactly what she packed her
but any other "vague" questions only get an 'it was fine' or 'I didn't learn anything'
(My mom takes her to school on Monday's and Friday's since DD sleeps over there every Sunday and Thursday since I work overnights)