Quoting justplainme93:" Yeah...we plan on it. First we need a vehicle so we don't have to depend on my parents to get us from ... [snip!] ... to them they get to use it as a crutch and not learn anything from it. Your LO is definitely lucky to have you as a momma "
Well, that is hard to do, definitely hard, I think your so definitely deserves kudos as well, for manning up so much!!! I know how the whole school thing is too, I am going full time or well mostly full time, and I get money from a trust only if I am in school, so I sort of have no choice either so we definitely have that in common! Gahhh lol guys can be so darn stupid sometimes, they don't think about something like that being on their record in 10 years lol! Staying in school will def. benefit all 3 of you guys, especially LO since it'll make a better future for him!! My dad having passed away and wanting me to go to school, along with my LO are my only two motivations sometimes! I am going to stay in because it's what's best, and my baby deserves the best
! Hahahaha my SO mama has gotten offended by some of the stuff I have said, and SO and his mom still think that his family can just come get him whenever they want....no no no, not happening, especially since I am BF and all, so nope sorry maybe when he can talk and tell me anything and everything or if someone is mean or something. I know family is family, but I don't trust the enviroment he'd be in, and it's safer for me to say my boy will be with me 24/7 for at least the first year most likely
! So your mom being a little offended is understandable it is her grandbaby and all but still mother and father have rights and only mother and father has right's to choose what is done with their child, and that is you making a motherly desicion out of love for your child!!! So don't ever feel bad about that! A vehicle is a good start! It will definitely help, maybe saving up will be the best option and then paying most of it in full if you can, and if not then that is alright to, as long as you guys can make it
!!! Hahaha parents O.o they are always in denial about all of it :/ lol. My mom is about a lot of stuff that happened, or maybe it's that she doesn't want me to look at my daddy as a bad person since he isn't here. I guess I will never know the true reasons, but I will still keep moving forward! I NEVER hold ANY of my past against my future, or myself. I used to and I couldn't let go, and as soon as I did, and gave up the past for a better future my life has been so much better
! Positive always outweighs the negative of almost anything
! I do not get along very well with some people that do hold everything they went through in the past as a crutch or as something they should have sympathy for, I mean yeah I am sorry that it happened, but if you really want a better life, let it go and you will be so much happier, I definitely promise you that. I look at all my bad experiences as something to learn from!!! And awww thanks!!! I wanna be the best mommy possible, for my boy, I want him to grow up much happier as child, then I did so I make sacrifices