re: Am I wrong?

How did this get in the drama corner ??

Quoting Andreanna ❤ Jayden:" How did this get in the drama corner ??"

It was in AS. My guess is that it got sent here because there was no other place to send it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vindictive:</b>" It was in AS. My guess is that it got sent here because there was no other place to send it."</blockquote>


This. But the lady left when no one agreed with her. So it really never got dramatic. Lol

I think it's very honest and normal for you to feel some sense of loss and protective over what you see as "your" grand baby. I think that you need to step back and look at your child though and what she feels is best for her. Don't push her to do what you think is best, let her make this decision. Championing your potiential grandchild might very well push your daughter far away from you. She is here and now whereas her potiential child is not. She needs your love and support, not her fetus. You've said your piece and gave her new options to consider. Now is time to back off, let her take the reins and let her know you will always love her. You don't have to like it but don't push her away over it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" I think it's very honest and normal for you to feel some sense of loss and protective over what you see ... [snip!] ... let her take the reins and let her know you will always love her. You don't have to like it but don't push her away over it."</blockquote>




It's not her daughter it's her son's girlfriend. And she left.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" I think it's very honest and normal ... [snip!] ... like it but don't push her away over it."</blockquote> It's not her daughter it's her son's girlfriend. And she left."

Well the same applies just sub son for daughter and just because she left doesn't mean she won't check back in later.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" Well the same applies just sub son for daughter and just because she left doesn't mean she won't check back in later. "</blockquote>


She made the account today to make this post and then left when people didn't agree withher. I don't see her coming back lol.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" Well the same applies just sub son ... [snip!] ... She made the account today to make this post and then left when people didn't agree withher. I don't see her coming back lol."

Okay? And? She doesn't need to log in to check the post and see any new responses. I was giving advise because I wanted to put in my 2 cents worth the same as everyone else did only I wasn't online as it went down. It's not a dead thread nor is it odd I commented as it's only a few hours old. I doubt I'll be the last to weigh in on this post before it drops off the front of the drama corner. And even if I am I still felt like responding to the original post regardless of if the OP was still online or not.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" Okay? And? She doesn't need to log in to check the post and see any new responses. I was giving advise ... [snip!] ... corner. And even if I am I still felt like responding to the original post regardless of if the OP was still online or not. "</blockquote>




Take it easy lady. I wasn't being confrontational in the least. I was just getting you up to speed on this post. Comment away on her question if that's what you want to do. But as a regular established BG member, you probably can agree that people who make an account, make one unpopular post and then leave, typically don't return. Right? That's all I was saying.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" Okay? And? She doesn't need to log ... [snip!] ... people who make an account, make one unpopular post and then leave, typically don't return. Right? That's all I was saying."

How do you even know she left? Maybe she just hasn't logged back on?
People make posts all the time and don't respond right away.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" How do you even know she left? Maybe she just hasn't logged back on? People make posts all the time and don't respond right away. "</blockquote>




I know. I never said that I know for sure that she is not coming back. I'm saying that its unlikely because that's usually how it works when new members make their first post and it isn't received well. I hope she does come back, as a matter of fact. I think getting and outside perspective from the women on here might actually help to see that what she should be doing is supporting her son and the decision he and his girlfriend are making, instead of trying to pursuade them otherwise. Unfortunately I don't thin shell be back.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" Okay? And? She doesn't need to log ... [snip!] ... people who make an account, make one unpopular post and then leave, typically don't return. Right? That's all I was saying."

I read the post for myself. I got irritated because it felt like you were reprimanding me for even commenting which I didn't appreciate. Just because a new member doesn't log in again doesn't mean they don't check up on posts. I commented on the off chance she might see it. I didn't mind you correcting me because I only glanced at the post while cooking dinner and then thought about what I wanted to say. I did mind you acting as though it was silly of me to comment because you don't think she's coming back.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" I read the post for myself. I got irritated because it felt like you were reprimanding me for even commenting ... [snip!] ... what I wanted to say. I did mind you acting as though it was silly of me to comment because you don't think she's coming back. "</blockquote>




I didn't thinking it was silly for you to comment at all. That wasnt how i intended to sound. Its hard to get tone across in text.
Im hoping she comes back to read them all. I just wanted to update on the status of this post. That's all. And we all assumed that it was her daughter, I only saw that it was her sons girlfriend wheni looked at her profile.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" I read the post for myself. I got irritated ... [snip!] ... all. And we all assumed that it was her daughter, I only saw that it was her sons girlfriend wheni looked at her profile."

Well I apologize for getting short with you then. Text can be hard to get tone across and I sometimes get put out when I shouldn't I guess is the best way to say it, LOL Thank you for clearing that up and not getting pissy with my poor attitude.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vindictive:</b>" It was in AS. My guess is that it got sent ... [snip!] ... to send it."</blockquote> This. But the lady left when no one agreed with her. So it really never got dramatic. Lol"</blockquote>




Right ? Lol oh well