I Cant Stand.

My SO annoys the living hell out of me and i know its just hormones because some of the things are just flat out stupid that have been starting to annoy me lately that he does, but then there are some things that piss him off because i was perfectly fine with being touched and hugged before i got pregnant and now i just cant stand being touched or i go into an emotional freak out. but some of the things can be the littlest thing from him trying to hug me to him chattering his teeth just honestly drive me insane. And he has figured out what annoys me and what doesn't so he also just adores to annoy me and i feel bad because he will be attempting and succeeding at annoying me and ill start freaking out and yelling at him he wont stop when i ask him to stop or he doesn't do something right or something stupid like that. and i feel bad for some of my freak outs on him but i cant help it :/ and i feel like im the only one who feels like this sometimes :/

I know exactly what you mean. You're not alone, trust me! Mannny many women are like this when they're pregnant. Sometimes all DH had to do was look at me "funny" and I'd fly off the handle. lol Poor guy! He handled it quite well though, and it's all back to normal now  

That's exactly how I felt while pregnant and my husband is a saint. We have an extremely stable relationship but sometimes I wanted to kill him when I was pregnant. It made no sense to me whatsoever... I pretty much kept my emotions in check 90% of the time and the other 10% he knew I was just being moody and would eventually come around. I made sure to warn him consistently, lol.

I'll never admit it to him but for the better part of my pregnancy I hated him touching me. Kissing me, hugging me, having sex, all of it just grossed me out and pissed me off. I felt like such a nutcase. I'm not sure if it was just him or if it would have been with everyone touching me (I do not like anyone but DS and DH touching me as it is) but I just tried to pretend it wasn't happening and I was a normal, sane individual.

I'm the SAME exact way, my SO will be taking a drink of his drink, and it annoys me... :/
I feel bad cause he tries so hard, I started getting really annoyed with him in my second trimester, he's started being really quiet and still around me now, he says sorry when he does something that he knows annoys me and I feel like a complete B*tch cause it's stupid things he shouldn't be sorry for.
I tried to explain to him that it's just my hormones but I don't think he fully gets it,
I feel like a psycho path though, I go through stages where I don't want to hug, kiss, I hate having sex, cuddling and all that I just want my space, then I go back to being nice, and liking all that again.. Poor guy he's so confused.. I feel like crap about it too  

Quoting maddies.mommy2012:" I'm the SAME exact way, my SO will be taking a drink of his drink, and it annoys me... :/ I feel bad ... [snip!] ... space, then I go back to being nice, and liking all that again.. Poor guy he's so confused.. I feel like crap about it too  "

I feel like the worlds worst person because of it :/ cause my SO tries so hard not to most of the time especially when he can tell im already annoyed and it can even just be a look and i can go off. and he gets upset because i dont like being touched i just cant stand it for some reason but i have both the kitten and the puppy constantly cuddling with me and he gets irritated that the animals dont bother me but he does and the other afternoon he was just chewing on an icecube and i couldnt stand it and he says sorry constantly and tries to be quite and just sit their but then if im talking to him and he doesnt answer me or something little i get annoyed as well and i feel such a b*tch because of it but i say sorry and then he goes "no no you have nothing to be sorry about" and goes off but i know i have short tempers and attitude issues but he has temper issues and that even annoys me or when he is talking about his day at work i feel like a complete and total B*TCH because i dont want to hear it and it annoys me to hear it :/ and i feel like im such a bad person :/

Watched "What to Expect when You're Expecting" and the one chick said it right "I love you honey....but sometimes all I wanna do is punch you in the face!" Poor DH just sits there shell shocked and eventually I realize I'm being a tyrant and I'll have a good cry and he'll rub my back and it all goes back to normal.

Damn hormones.

Quoting máthair draíocht:" Watched "What to Expect when You're Expecting" and the one chick said it right "I love you honey....but ... [snip!] ... I realize I'm being a tyrant and I'll have a good cry and he'll rub my back and it all goes back to normal. Damn hormones."

me and my SO both watched that movie, but he doesnt get that its hormones all the time and said that the movie is just unrealistic and things like that dont happen