Boyfirend's mother!

Ok me and my bf stay at my house during the week and then we go to his house during the weekend. I cant stand being at his house! His mother takes my baby from me and keeps him forever. Just last weekend they throw Noah a welcome home party and his family came over to see him. They was pasing him around like a doll. It didnt make me mad what made me mad was when his mother came up to me ans said it sucks sharing him. i was like i never get him! Just last weekend she wrote on my wall saying you need to stay in your jeans. i thought that was very rude of her! she cryed when i told her that. she said i do everything for you and i was like no you dont! you only do things for noah and thats it! She spoils him so much to where i cant do nothing! i just cant stand this women:/ i cant even stand when she holds him it pisses me off so bad. she acts like his hers! is it wrong for me to feel like this about her?

Huh? Stay in your jeans?

You have him all week? She sees him on the weekends? Idk, I don't see the problem.

Your boyfriend is not your baby's father? What does she mean "stay in your jeans"? Like don't have sex with your boyfriend and have another baby or something?

If you're only there during the weekends...how are you "never getting him" or not able to do anything with/for your baby?

I think it's wrong because you are lucky she loves your child. A lot of mothers cannot say their SOs mother loves their child like that. Most of the time the grandparents are just as absent as the father.

Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" If you're only there during the weekends...how are you "never getting him" or not able to do anything with/for your baby?"

Lol right? I'd actually like to have the break, sheesh.

He's a new baby..like..really new. Of corse everybody is going to be excited, including your MIL. If you don't want her to see the baby..don't go over there.

So you're upset because you have the baby to yourself all week and his mom wants to spend time with the baby on the weekends?

&I don't get the stay in your jeans thing.... 

Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" Lol right? I'd actually like to have the break, sheesh."

Not to mention..the baby is like 2 weeks old.

God forbid a grandparent miss their grandchild during the week and wants to hold and love on him for the few days a week she sees him. Sounds like a real bitch.
 

she's a gramma, it's her job to love him and wanna be with him. you have him all week. and you don't HAVE to go to his house with him if you don't want to.

Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" Lol right? I'd actually like to have the break, sheesh."

We must be weird or something cuz when MIL wants any of the kids...I'm like: "HEREEEE!"

 

Quoting Noah"s Mommy :" Ok me and my bf stay at my house during the week and then we go to his house during the weekend. I cant ... [snip!] ... even stand when she holds him it pisses me off so bad. she acts like his hers! is it wrong for me to feel like this about her?"

she only sees the baby on weekends so i dont really get how you "never" have him...
i always think its normal when grandparents act that way. i think its awesome when they love their grandbabies that much.
why should she do anything for you in particular?
i mean from the sound of it you are staying in her home on a regular basis for multiple days. i assume that includes a roof over your head and a bed at night when you stay with your boyfriend?
i would never expect anything from anyone other than MAYBE my husband. i always think its great when relatives spoil my child.  

im curious about the jeans lol... waiting for an explanation...