re: Boyfirend's mother!

Quoting Noah"s Mommy :" The jeans thing is that she meaning to not have sex. But the reason why i really dont like her is because ... [snip!] ... i finally say i want him she crys and throws him on me and says your a bitch? I just feel like im not his mother when im there."

Hmm.. Maybe drop him off there for the weekend and pick him up after so you don't have to be around her?

Quoting Noah"s Mommy :" The jeans thing is that she meaning to not have sex. But the reason why i really dont like her is because ... [snip!] ... i finally say i want him she crys and throws him on me and says your a bitch? I just feel like im not his mother when im there."

so stop going there, or tell her she needs to back off a little bit.

Quoting Noah"s Mommy :" The jeans thing is that she meaning to not have sex. But the reason why i really dont like her is because ... [snip!] ... i finally say i want him she crys and throws him on me and says your a bitch? I just feel like im not his mother when im there."

Share him? He's a baby FFS, not a toy.
He's 2 weeks old, he's new to her too.

and at 2 weeks PP you shouldn't be having sex, nor, should you have sex in her house anyway. get your own place if that's what you want to do.

Quoting Noah"s Mommy :" The jeans thing is that she meaning to not have sex. But the reason why i really dont like her is because ... [snip!] ... i finally say i want him she crys and throws him on me and says your a bitch? I just feel like im not his mother when im there."

Speak up in a calm and respectful manner and if she doesn't get it then don't go over there anymore. Sounds like a crappy situation.

See i would stop going over but my boyfirend wont let me and he says its unfair. But everytime were there he only gets yelled at and screamed at. so i dont know why he would his son around that. And were only 15 and 16 so we cant move out and plus im not having sex.

Quoting Noah"s Mommy :" See i would stop going over but my boyfirend wont let me and he says its unfair. But everytime were there ... [snip!] ... at. so i dont know why he would his son around that. And were only 15 and 16 so we cant move out and plus im not having sex."

then maybe he should live at home, and you should live at home and just go visit sometimes. you are too young to be living together all week IMO.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" then maybe he should live at home, and you should live at home and just go visit sometimes. you are too young to be living together all week IMO."

He wants to be around his son so he said no to that too. And when were at my house were around my mother and sisters and brothers so were not alone or anything.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Speak up in a calm and respectful manner and if she doesn't get it then don't go over there anymore. Sounds like a crappy situation. "</blockquote>




  This!! You need to respectfully tell her that he is YOUR child and YOU are his mother, regardless of your age, you are the child's mother whether she likes it or not. She can either respect that or you don't need to go over there and she can meet you somewhere to see the baby.

Quoting J+K=Bri :" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Speak up in a calm and respectful manner and ... [snip!] ... likes it or not. She can either respect that or you don't need to go over there and she can meet you somewhere to see the baby."

Well see we did that before i had him and she flipped at on us and sent my boyfirend to jdc for him telling her that. My mother thinks she trying to take him as hers because she cant have no more. But i think she just dont like me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Noah"s Mommy :</b>" Well see we did that before i had him and she flipped at on us and sent my boyfirend to jdc for him telling ... [snip!] ... her that. My mother thinks she trying to take him as hers because she cant have no more. But i think she just dont like me."</blockquote>




I'm sorry she's like that but you need to stand your ground. She's trying to push you around and you can't let her do that. Unless you are neglecting or abusing your son, there isn't a damn thing she can do to take your baby from you.

Quoting J+K=Bri :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Noah"s Mommy :</b>" Well see we did that before i had him and ... [snip!] ... let her do that. Unless you are neglecting or abusing your son, there isn't a damn thing she can do to take your baby from you."

I told her that and she still said i cant get him if i pay enough money for a lawer:/ I really just cant stand that women but i love my bf and i do what makes him happy and going to his house makes him happy. Hes wanting to start going over every other week for a whole week. My mother told me no but he said he will just take the baby then. 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Noah"s Mommy :</b>" I told her that and she still said i cant get him if i pay enough money for a lawer:/ I really just cant ... [snip!] ... to start going over every other week for a whole week. My mother told me no but he said he will just take the baby then. "</blockquote>



She's a liar. And your baby is 2 weeks old he can't just take your baby over there. Is your mother not supportive of you? Maybe she needs to have a talk with his mother, she can't treat you like this!

Quoting J+K=Bri :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Noah"s Mommy :</b>" I told her that and she still said i cant ... [snip!] ... there. Is your mother not supportive of you? Maybe she needs to have a talk with his mother, she can't treat you like this!"

My mother is very supportive its not she not very out spooken person so she just keeps to her self when his mother is around. But i cant tell she getting to the point where she is about to go off on her. So im kinda just waiting for it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Noah"s Mommy :</b>" My mother is very supportive its not she not very out spooken person so she just keeps to her self when ... [snip!] ... is around. But i cant tell she getting to the point where she is about to go off on her. So im kinda just waiting for it."</blockquote>


I think it's time your mother gets involved. You're her child and you should not be treated the way your bf's mother is treating you. Honestly if I was your mom I would have been involved since the beginning.