re: dating while being a teen mom...

Quoting .Colleen.:" We weren't trying to be mean, its just a different mind set at different ages  "

Yes. This. lol

Quoting .Colleen.:" We weren't trying to be mean, its just a different mind set at different ages  "

no i know you uys wernt trying to be mean i just wanted to kinda explain myself i guess sorry if i seems like there was a attitude if there was i didnt do it on purpose.

Quoting .Solange.:" you have never been single? that's kind of a stretch. maybe you should try it, it's not as bad as it seems. We're not all crazy bitter women with three cats ya know."

This....I only have 2 cats,   and a little crazy.

Quoting Coupon Lady:" Lol its true, all my friends are married or common law with kids and are always bitchy and miserable ... [snip!] ... am happy and I get to answer to no one. he dates but he keeps his relationships open cause well he is like me, cant comitt lol"

it is better to be true to yourself than to force yourself to commit and be unhappy. props to you! I think that's great

Quoting .Solange.:" it is better to be true to yourself than to force yourself to commit and be unhappy. props to you! I think that's great"

Thanks. lol  

Quoting .Solange.:" you have never been single? that's kind of a stretch. maybe you should try it, it's not as bad as it seems. We're not all crazy bitter women with three cats ya know."

well since ive started dating the longest ive been single was 6 months.

Quoting Coupon Lady:" This....I only have 2 cats,   and a little crazy."

My attic is covered in pictures of cats. fat cats, small cats, white cats, black cats, sleeping cats, eating cats I don't discriminate. That doesn't count though, right?

Quoting .Solange.:" My attic is covered in pictures of cats. fat cats, small cats, white cats, black cats, sleeping cats, eating cats I don't discriminate. That doesn't count though, right?"

haha nope. not in my books. lol

you need to be old and alone sitting on your porch yelling at the neighborhood kids while feeding 100 cats, thats considered crazy   lol

I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks, my BD stuck around long enough for me to confirm I was pregnant at my 5 week appointment then he split.

Anyways, to the point...

I have been dating this really incredible man since I was about 7 or 8 weeks pregnant. He has helped me get everything I need to care for my son & more. He rubs my feet, talks to Colton through my belly, puts lotion on my stretch marks & took care of me during the violent stages of my morning sickness. We are now getting a place together, it's a fix me up home but it's our home. Of course, in the beginning people had their opinions but you have to follow your heart.

He seems like a really great guy. For him to accept the fact that your pregnant & to put up with those crazy pregnancy hormones when he doesn't even have to is an incredible thing that not many men will do.

Quoting Coupon Lady:" haha nope. not in my books. lol you need to be old and alone sitting on your porch yelling at the neighborhood kids while feeding 100 cats, thats considered crazy   lol"

when i'm in my golden years and have been single the rest of my adult life, i'll probably be the crazy lady who sits in her rocking chair all day and yells at the kids to get the smurf off my lawn when they walk by.  That way, i'll be sure no one bothers me on halloween or girl scout cookie season. i've got it all planned out  

Quoting Colton's Mommy ❤:" I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks, my BD stuck around long enough for me to confirm I was pregnant ... [snip!] ... & to put up with those crazy pregnancy hormones when he doesn't even have to is an incredible thing that not many men will do."

awwwee thats amazing . great for you! my bd was a scumbag this guy was actualy friends with him at one point but hes such a sweetheart and always has been to me and i also think its amazing that he will put up with my crazy hormonal ass which is not easy he actual helped me pick out my daughters name well he told me the ones tht he thought was completely horrid and the ones he liked. he just makes me happy. =]

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gemmas mommy!:</b>" awwwee thats amazing . great for you! my bd was a scumbag this guy was actualy friends with him at one ... [snip!] ... daughters name well he told me the ones tht he thought was completely horrid and the ones he liked. he just makes me happy. =]"</blockquote>




Thank you. (:
I definitely say go for it. He seems like a good guy. (:

If hes willing to take care of you and you're child make it work, you cant find thoes kimd of guys now a days. But everyone has their flaws, mistakes. But if u can see past them and hes a good guy, accept it.   lol im here if u wanna talk.

Quoting Bianca ♔:" If hes willing to take care of you and you're child make it work, you cant find thoes kimd of guys now ... [snip!] ... everyone has their flaws, mistakes. But if u can see past them and hes a good guy, accept it.   lol im here if u wanna talk."

thank you and the same goes out to you!

Go for it girl   If he's willing to be there for you AND a child that isn't his and even get a better job to help out, he's worth giving a shot too cause he obviously cares