Quoting K. P. Walsh:" Well she's not their mommy. It's hard as a kid when you don't fully understand why things are the way they are. But it's awesome that they're doing so well. You're doing it right! "
Love your new picture.
In honesty my kids never saw my ex and I fight. When I filled for seperation they saw their dad push me down the stairs. But that was later. I know they are seeing him and his new wife fight. She also calls me names. Which for my husband and I we never fight/disagree in front of the kids, and we NEVER name call. It just puts them in a weird spot. But they also complain because she is never there (working) and when she is all she does is yell and sit in her room. My ex takes care of her 3 kids for her. It is an odd situation. I am thinking they need someone to talk to that isn't my ex or I. Because I know they want to tell me but I don't like hearing my kids are being treated bad. So to me they could tell someone safe ANYTHING they want. IDK