FAKING AN ORGASM. HELP.

okay so my husband and i have been together for almost 2 years now. and i CANNOT reach climax while having sex. the only time i can have an orgasm is my oral sex. so i have been faking it now for 2 years.......but its getting to the point where i cant orgasm when he eats me out.! WHAT DO I DO? DO I TELL HIM I'VE BEEN FAKING IT? HELP.!

Quoting masonsmommy1311:" okay so my husband and i have been together for almost 2 years now. and i CANNOT reach climax while having ... [snip!] ... its getting to the point where i cant orgasm when he eats me out.! WHAT DO I DO? DO I TELL HIM I'VE BEEN FAKING IT? HELP.!"

Honesty is important in a relationship so yes i would tell him

Quoting masonsmommy1311:" okay so my husband and i have been together for almost 2 years now. and i CANNOT reach climax while having ... [snip!] ... its getting to the point where i cant orgasm when he eats me out.! WHAT DO I DO? DO I TELL HIM I'VE BEEN FAKING IT? HELP.!"

Don't tell him you've been faking it. Just stop faking it and tell him that you're going to have to start trying new things because it's not working anymore.

If it's been that long, every single time, I would tell him.

Quoting masonsmommy1311:" okay so my husband and i have been together for almost 2 years now. and i CANNOT reach climax while having ... [snip!] ... its getting to the point where i cant orgasm when he eats me out.! WHAT DO I DO? DO I TELL HIM I'VE BEEN FAKING IT? HELP.!"

Ohhh this is a tough one. I personally wouldn't have faked in the beginning to begin with. But I would just stop fakind and just try to enjoy sex as much as you can. Good luck

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" Don't tell him you've been faking it. Just stop faking it and tell him that you're going to have to start trying new things because it's not working anymore. "</blockquote>




This! Telling him you've been faking all along will kill his confidence forever lol

Do not tell him.... You will forever smurf his ego.

I faked it with an ex and I hated it! I swore I would never do it with my husband and haven't. Takes so much pressure off. I wouldn't tell him, that would hurt his feelings, but just tell him it doesn't seem to work anymore.

I'd tell him. I tell my husband when I don't get off. Just try new things, experiment.

i agree that its good to be honest. but i dont want him to think that it doesnt feel good. because it does. ergg.

Don't tell him you are faking, he will prob never have sex with u again if you tell him that, just try new things and find different positions.

Quoting Jenna♥Charlotte.:" Honesty is important in a relationship so yes i would tell him"

I wouldn't have initially lied to my husband, but since she did if she admits that she's been lying for two years, not only will he feel worthless but he'll have zero confidence in the marriage.

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Don't tell him you've been faking it. Just stop faking it and tell him that you're going to have to start trying new things because it's not working anymore. "

thanks bunches.!

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wouldn't have initially lied to my husband, but since she did if she admits that she's been lying for two years, not only will he feel worthless but he'll have zero confidence in the marriage. "

!!

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wouldn't have initially lied to my husband, but since she did if she admits that she's been lying for two years, not only will he feel worthless but he'll have zero confidence in the marriage. "

see that makes me feel like smurf.! i shouldnt have faked it in the first place, but the first time you have sex with someone, you dont want them to think they arent good. lol but its not that he isnt , ive never been to reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation....i just....havent told him that :/ does that make me a bad wife??